Eclypse Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Ive been dating my gf 2 months. We are each others firsts in every way, however something terrible happened tonight. Me and a grp of friends have gone away for a few days. Gf was not here. 2 of the people here are a couple. As the night progressed and got boozier I had the impression the girl was hitting on me, but I didn't think anything of it because she had a boyfriend and they are in fact engaged I think. However just then an hour ago everyone was in bed but us 2 were waiting for toilet. She walked up to me and put her arms around me and moved closer to me. And then for some inexplicable reason we kissed. Just once on the lips briefly. When I saw what I had done I pushed away from her and said "no" she looked dissapointed, but went back to the bed with her fiancé. Here I am now in my sleeping bag typing this on my phone wracked with guilt. What have I done?! Is the damage repairable? I love my girlfriend a lot and I can't believe this happened. I was somewhat drunk but that's no excuse. It's wearing off now. What should I do? Should I tell my girlfriend?I have no feelings for this other girl. I'm not even friends with her and her bf. I feel so bad!! Gah
Posh Polly Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Tell her exactly what happened and how you feel about it. If you start hiding things now your relationship will never be the same. Tell her in person! Good luck it will be okay.
impz Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 It's bad, but it's not that bad that it's a deal breaker as yet. I echo Posh Polly's comments. Tell your girlfriend about this, and I do think she will forgive you if she knows you did not initiate anything and is under the influence of alcohol. You should avoid too much alcohol in such party situations next time.
jenifer1972 Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 This is a pretty minor infraction, all things considered. Try not to make more of it than it really is. Just use this as a lesson of what can happen when too much alcohol and members of the opposite sex are mixed together.
make me believe Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 Tell her exactly what happened and how you feel about it. If you start hiding things now your relationship will never be the same. Tell her in person! Good luck it will be okay. I agree with this. I'm of the opinion that you ALWAYS need to tell your partner if you break the "rules" of your relationship, even if it is relatively minor. The other person still deserves to know all of the facts. So you should tell your girlfriend, and next time keep yourself out of situations like that.
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