EmptyPromises Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 okay so my ex & i havent talked in about 2 weeks....broke up a month ago..yesterday & the day before we had some contact just saying wed be friends & friendly..because we both dont want a relationship with eachother...anyway...i went out to the movies last night with some guy & it was my away message...he saw it and is now asking who i went to the movies with...should i tell him i went on a date? or just lie & say i went with my sister or some friends?
make me believe Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 You guys probably shouldn't be trying to be "friends" so soon after the breakup, especially if he's going to get jealous & weird about you going to the movies with another guy. Way too much drama. I guess I'd just say that it was a date, and when he gets all butthurt about it you can take that as a sign that you two aren't ready to be "friends."
Author EmptyPromises Posted June 22, 2010 Author Posted June 22, 2010 very true...im already taking it as a sign by him asking me about the movies...see the thing is..i really do just miss his friendship & am not in love with him anymore & wouldnt date him again..and i told him that & he told me he feels the same way..maybe he just lied about that?
Crazy Magnet Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 I agree with everything the other posters said. It seems a bit early and it seems that "friends" isn't a level the two of you need to be at just yet.
Serenitynow Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 It's none of his damn business what you do. Do you have to answer to all your other friends on what you do and when ?
Diezel Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 It's none of his damn business what you do. Do you have to answer to all your other friends on what you do and when ? AGREED. And if you want to tell him what you did, do so... what's the worst that can happen, he tries to break up with you again???
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