nuke88star Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 first of all she started to txt me and stuff, and now when i ask her to hang out and if she's working that day she will give me her whole schedule like when she's off and stuff but when i ask her to hang out she says she has to do this and that so she'll let me know...like wft
Diezel Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 She's not interested. An interested woman will make herself available to you or counter-offer. Find someone else that WOULD be interested in going out with you.
Green Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 What does it even matter if she is interested? Might as well just keep asking her out until it gets to boring or awkward to do so. Ask other women out to, when you are a single guy you can't just focus on one girl until you have atleast had a first kiss. ALWAYS GO FOR THE KISS ON THE FIRST DATE BY THE WAY.
Author nuke88star Posted June 22, 2010 Author Posted June 22, 2010 i dont want to keep asking her but why is she keep replying my texts and i mean right away and if she took like 5mins to reply she apologize and gives me a reason why it took her so long to reply, and why does she give me her off days i mean if i dont like someone i'd be like sorry i'm busy all week or something like that
Green Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Its called she is a GIRL and might be scared to go out with you. Any time you a MAN are scared of something just multiply that irational fear and its a safe bet thats how the woman feels. LOOK STOP LOOKING FOR THE MYTHICAL SURE THING. Just keep asking the girl out if thats what you want to do... AND STOP TRYING TO UNDERSTAND IT WITH CLEAR ANSWERS>
reservoirdog1 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 (edited) She's not interested. An interested woman will make herself available to you or counter-offer. The above is a definite possibility. So, with this girl, change your approach with her slightly. Make your asks more casual -- "hey, are you free on ____ night?" If she says she's busy, reply with "no worries, another time". You want to come across as a guy who'd like to see her, but if she's busy, you're not losing sleep over it. While doing this, keep busy and keep dating other women. Don't make yourself too available. Edited June 22, 2010 by reservoirdog1
Author nuke88star Posted June 22, 2010 Author Posted June 22, 2010 so shall i like stop talking to her for like a month and see what happen??? is that what u guys saying
Diezel Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 I'm saying that you are wasting your time with this one. Spend your time on better women that'll want to go out with you. The fact that she replies to your texts right away means nothing. The fact that she won't go out with you means everything.
guarded Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 it sounds like she's not really into you. i've been guilty of having done what that girl has to you... as bad as this might sound... having a guy who clearly is interested in you is flattering so despite the fact that we may not feel the same way we have this tendency to just want to keep you guys around for an ego boost, so to speak. don't read too much into the replies, the fact that she bothers to reply is only so she doesn't come across as a complete bitch and as i said to string you along. stop asking her to hang out, it gets old and it's kind of a turn off when you start to look desperate. Diezel is so right....
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