hest812 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 I came to know a great 25 year old girl about 3 months ago when my friend passed her number to me. Im 26 years old. But sometimes, I wonder, does she views me as still a normal friend? She got a lot of friends, male and female. I even asked her asking whether she has a "special one", she replied No. I have been texting her almost everyday for the past two months and occasionally called her, pouring my concern and care over her and we gone out twice. I think she enjoys being with me. She does reply my SMS / call but she NEVERS have the initiative or texting / calling me. I mean, if she likes me, she would definitely text me out of her own initiative, right? Not waiting to reply to my texts! Sometimes, I test her by not texting her two days in a row, she did not even to bother to text me a simple question like "Hi. U busy?" ! Ok, sorry for the rambling, should I continue to ask her out for more dates and "try" my best to get her to like me? Or should I just add her as my list of "normal" friends? Kindly advice, good citizens of LoveShack.Org. Thank you. God Bless.
Green Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 1) You shouldn't TEST people 2) Why not just KISS her and see if she LIKES it. 3) BE the man and face REJECTION don't expect a sure thing. Women don't generaly do anything untill it seems like a sure thing.
Confused100 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 I came to know a great 25 year old girl about 3 months ago when my friend passed her number to me. Im 26 years old. But sometimes, I wonder, does she views me as still a normal friend? She got a lot of friends, male and female. I even asked her asking whether she has a "special one", she replied No. I have been texting her almost everyday for the past two months and occasionally called her, pouring my concern and care over her and we gone out twice. I think she enjoys being with me. She does reply my SMS / call but she NEVERS have the initiative or texting / calling me. I mean, if she likes me, she would definitely text me out of her own initiative, right? Not waiting to reply to my texts! Sometimes, I test her by not texting her two days in a row, she did not even to bother to text me a simple question like "Hi. U busy?" ! Ok, sorry for the rambling, should I continue to ask her out for more dates and "try" my best to get her to like me? Or should I just add her as my list of "normal" friends? Kindly advice, good citizens of LoveShack.Org. Thank you. God Bless. That's exactly how I feel with some of my relationships, past and present. I'm always puzzled by that as well. Would love other people's input! When you say that you have gone out twice, what exactly does that mean? Did you both know that it was a date? If so, and she agreed to both, then I don't see any problem with asking her out again. She wouldn't go on a date with you if she didn't like you, right?
Diezel Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 I came to know a great 25 year old girl about 3 months ago when my friend passed her number to me. Im 26 years old. Mistake #1. 3 months??? You established yourself as a friend over 3 months instead of moving in from early on. But sometimes, I wonder, does she views me as still a normal friend? She got a lot of friends, male and female. I even asked her asking whether she has a "special one", she replied No. Mistake #2. She included YOU in that list. Don't ASK that. But then again, this is a mistake 3 months in the making. I have been texting her almost everyday for the past two months and occasionally called her, pouring my concern and care over her and we gone out twice. I think she enjoys being with me. She does reply my SMS / call but she NEVERS have the initiative or texting / calling me.[/Quote] Mistake #3. You gave everything to her EASILY. You texted her the entire time, destroyed any aura of mystery or intrigue about you. You gave her everything she wanted without giving her a chance to earn it. Yes, she enjoys being with you as a FRIEND. I'm glad she responds to your texts, but the fact that she NEVER initiates anything is a tell-tale sign. I mean, if she likes me, she would definitely text me out of her own initiative, right? Not waiting to reply to my texts! Sometimes, I test her by not texting her two days in a row, she did not even to bother to text me a simple question like "Hi. U busy?" ![/QUote] Mistake #4. Testing her? Are you serious? She probably was making dinner plans with some other guy while you were conducting "tests". Ok, sorry for the rambling, should I continue to ask her out for more dates and "try" my best to get her to like me? Or should I just add her as my list of "normal" friends? Kindly advice, good citizens of LoveShack.Org. Thank you. God Bless. Um. She added YOU to her list of friends about 2 months and 3 weeks ago. Move on.
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