Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Its ben about 4 months since the break up with the ex. Reason of break up: cheated on me once again for the billionth time and he got a younger girl pregnant. I thought i was doing good until he started to contact me again. Some of us here, i know we start back to aquare one when the ex gets in contact with us because they say things or do things that confuse us. Well it happened to me..once again for the millionth time. Found out hes dating someone else, this other girl has been in the picture for a while but "as a friend". Now they are toguether and according to the talk i had with his brother..she basically lives in his house. Its so hard seeing him with someone else, even though he doesnt deserve me after everything hes done to me. My heart just wont let go, it just doesnt understand. Since he was never really faithfull to me throughout our 3+ years of the relationship , i know all those times he said he had never loved anyone like me and that i was the only one that made him happy and that all those girls were just a way of him trying to forget about me, all that is BS. Those are the kind of things and ONLY things my heart takes in, stupid heart.. so blind.
LovelyDaze Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 even though he doesnt deserve me after everything hes done to me. Brilliant. Keep that thought in your head at ALL times. Remember this, he wasn't faithful to you so it's pretty obvious that he will not faithful to his current GF. When your ex leaves you, they don't all the sudden get a dose of ethics and is squeaky clean monogamous. YOU are the lucky one being out of that mess. The new GF will see the doom for herself...it's just a matter of time.
BiAxident Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 If he cheated on you, and he is cheating on his current GF, then he clearly has issues which need to be resolved. The fortunate part is that you dont have to be a part of that resolution. He got someone else pregnant? He is foolish, irresponsible, and not deserving of your time, affection, or thoughts.
Author Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted August 9, 2010 Author Posted August 9, 2010 woah! i am very late in replying...but thank you for your comments. well, heres an update: My ex has completly erased me from his life with the same girl i mentioned, the reason i know is because the last time i talked to him was almost a month ago and we ended up getting toguether for the last time and we had sex, i dont know why i did it, maybe because i missed him and i wanted to be with him for the last time. Yes, this means he cheated on his current gf with me. well, afterwards it seemed like he wanted to keep talking if i was ok with it but told me that he could never be with me again because he is with someone else already and because i have changed. i left it at that for the night...as buddies. I was thinking and turning all night and day and i realized i wasnt ready to be friends with him while he is with someone else...so the next day send him a text which was sort of mean but i wanted to make it seem like i didnt care about him anymore: "Hey, i dont want to keep talkin to you ok all i wanted to do is **** you for the last time and i already did,so thanx for the free diick.Good luck with your little girlfriend bye"....he texted back and we started arguing and since then didnt hear from him at all. I also sent a message to his current gf and telling her alot of stuff about him trying to warn her he was going to do the same thing to her that he did to me specially because she is younger and dumber. She read the message until a few days ago and replied back saying that i was wasting my time saying all that to her that whatever happens between him and her is their bussiness not mine and that i shouldnt care what they do or not. I replied back for the last time and said some last things to her. later on at night my ex texts me and tells me to mind my own business to not talk to his gf and tell her stuff about him because he didnt want her to leave him...i told him it hurt how he moved on so quick and stuff and now acting like he doesnt care about me all he said to me was "life sucks doesnt it, when you dont take advantage of things" he also said it was my fault and that i am too much work so he might as well be with someone else and to stay out of his life. The next day he shows up at my house hanging out with his sister and her bf (his older sister lives at my house ) of course i ignored him and did not even look at him. He did the same thing with me. Two days later, he shows up at my house again with his gf!!!!!!!!! I understand its his sisters house too and she can have whatever guest she wants but from his part to bring his gf to my house!!!??? i was soooo madddd and he acted like it was nothing like he didnt care. I was hurt... i couldnt take it. I never thought he would do such thing to me. Everyone says he did it on purpose so i would get mad and see that he has moved on already. But, i just think he really doesnt care about me anymore and is happy with his new gf. It just hurts alot because i havent found anyone to help me move on...i still love him and obviously he doesnt anymore..or probably never did.:-(
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