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ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years left me AGAIN for younger girl. Will he regret?

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By dani91621
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Gonan try and make this short and sweet, I was with my ex for 2 1/2 years. I was the love of HIS life until about a year ago, when he started to "change". He left me once and stated he was unhappy, but we never stopped talking or seeing each other, eventually he came running back stating I was his everything, I am the best thing thats ever happened to him and that he wants to marry me.

 

We got back together Valentines day this year and things have been amazing. Atleast I thought. Two weeks ago he seemed distant after a recent trip home and the next day pulled the "Im not happy" line again. He said he loves me and will always love me, that this was hard for him too, that he will miss me, that we can try again later, etc etc blah blah blah.

I agreed with the breakup, I was hurt, but I did not want to be with someone who was unhappy anymore. Well heres the kicker...

 

about 3 days after we broke up, I find out that he met someone back home and has been seeing her (cheating on me) and pretty much left me for her like that! The messed up thing is that I always was skeptical about him going home because of this very reason...I got crap from him all the time about it, my instincts were right and he was doing exacly what I thought he was doing.

 

He is 30 years old and this girl is 21...parties all the time, does drugs, and has the worst tacky tattoos. Everything he never wanted in a chic...considering his family is Mormon.

 

My questions....why didnt he just tell me the truth...or even just say he wanted to see other people? Why continue to lie with all the "I love you crap"? Im wondering what will happen if his new relationship doesnt work out...cause I KNOW I WAS the best thing thats happened to him...I was an amazing girlfriend.

 

I DO NOT want him back...I will never take him back. Guess I just want him to regret hurting me AGAIN. Guys? Will he?

White Dove Established Member

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I'm sorry you're hurting and that he didn't have the balls to tell you the truth!

 

All I can say is that he will regret it but it won't be anytime soon. It's good that you're not going to take him back, DO NOT DO THAT. Stay strong, dani. You deserve a man that respects you and appreciates you.

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Why didn't he tell you the truth? Incase things didnt work out with the younger girl. I'm sure he will regret it but as Dove has posted it won't be anytime soon. He's still getting too much adrenaline from this young woman to feel bad for the things he has done, he can't see past his happiness at the current moment to realize what he has done.

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My questions....why didnt he just tell me the truth...or even just say he wanted to see other people? Why continue to lie with all the "I love you crap"?

 

Why? because he could because hes a cake eater and because it was a way to keep you around as his plan B thats all its simple thats not real love

 

Im wondering what will happen if his new relationship doesnt work out...cause I KNOW I WAS the best thing thats happened to him...I was an amazing girlfriend.

 

He will more then likely come back to you with sweet nothings confessing his love and saying how wrong he was inset random dribble here "blah blahhh blah blahh" its your choice if you fall for it yet again but he will be banking on it

 

 

I DO NOT want him back...I will never take him back. Guess I just want him to regret hurting me AGAIN. Guys? Will he?

 

Prob not if hes as selfish of a cake eater as you make him out to be? He will find some way to pawn off the failure of your relationship on you! not him.

 

I know your hurt but this mindset will only hurt you more and take time away from you getting over it and healing YOURSELF the best revenge? to move on and leave his cheating @ss in the dust completely

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...yep, time to let the idiot go. he's gonna have alot of problems. that isnt your problem any more.

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Yes I do not think he will either. His new girl already posted "kissy kissy" pix of them on FB...That was a nice big knife in the heart.

 

I am more angry than anything...how could someone be so hurtful to someone who is so good to them and somehow end up happy?

 

I do believe in karma...wish it would happen sooner tho.

 

Thanks for all your words.

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If that's really you in your profile pic... then he's a complete idiot. ;)

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Who cares whether he'll regret it or not... the sooner you stop worrying abuot what's going on in his life... the sooner YOU'LL take steps in the right direction. I know it's human nature to want karmic revenge, but holding onto those thoughts are not helping you at all.

 

Let go of him completely.

 

The sooner, the better.

 

Let live decide what his eventual punishment may be, whether you get to see it or not.

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Yes that is really me lol. I should post a better pic...But Im good. I am just very angry so karma is sweet!

 

I KNOW I can do soooo much better. I wish I never wasted my love, time dedication on this F!*k stick!

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Yes that is really me lol. I should post a better pic...But Im good. I am just very angry so karma is sweet!

 

I KNOW I can do soooo much better. I wish I never wasted my love, time dedication on this F!*k stick!

 

yeah i know its hard to let go of even if it makes sense. Also, there is gonna be that urge to "Prove him wrong" by tryingf to get back at him. Just try and let it go. Maybe find another guy?

 

And since that is you in the picture, you ont have any problems doing that :)

 

good luck

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