justaguy123 Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Hey LSer's, I have a question. How do you handle seeing your ex every day if there is no way to avoid doing so. Im asking this question because I will be going back to school soon and I will be in every class my ex is (we are in the same program at university). I still have a lot of resentment and anger towards her and I dont see how Ill be able to control that if she tries to talk to me. She was a complete coward and B*tch when she broke up with me and show no respect for me or our relationship. Im just wondering this because the fact that I will be in the same room as her is just a horrible thought and its something that Im dreading. Any encouragement or advice would be appreciated. I know that the best thing to do is just not speak to her and go about my business but Im just thinking thats going to be difficult because of the anger I feel towards her. Dont get me wrong I dont plan on yelling and screaming at her and being a dick to her. That would be stupid and would just make me look like a psycho ex lol. Im just wondering if there are people out there in LS land that have been in a similar situation of having to be near there ex and what they did to i guess "cope" with any existing feelings; be it of anger or love?
GrayClouds Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Keeping it all business with politeness, brevity, and more class then they deserve. Anything less feeds their ego. Dignity is the best revenge.
AlwaysConflicted Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Agreed. Listen to GrayClouds, that's some of the best advice you'll ever find.
yume Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Politeness. Be polite, and get on with your day. Anything else comes riddled with emotion and emotion shows how much it's bothering you. Be a robot to her, and let her see what heartless bitchiness feels like.
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