Bogo123 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Let's say you're into a guy, but you've only gone on a few dates. And one weekend you meet a more amazing guy who gets your number and asks you out. Do you lose attraction for the first guy? Does he get put on the back burner?
Pfiend101 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I am not a women but I believe the answer to be yes. Sometimes you get put on the back burner for someone who is "exciting" then when he dumps her ass. She comes running back.
harmfulsweetz Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I would say no, I wouldn't. Because if I did, I wasn't into the guy in the first place. Course, if you're just dating but not exclusive, there's every chance a girl may multidate, same with guys. But if I'm into a guy, I'm generally into just him, and no one else, and if I find someone more attractive, I couldn't have been all that attracted to the guy.
phineas Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I am not a women but I believe the answer to be yes. Sometimes you get put on the back burner for someone who is "exciting" then when he dumps her ass. She comes running back. Exciting = Player. I've seen it happen many times to my friends & it's happened to myself.
Green Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Let's say you're into a guy, but you've only gone on a few dates. And one weekend you meet a more amazing guy who gets your number and asks you out. Do you lose attraction for the first guy? Does he get put on the back burner? I would stop expecting answers from women to work as some general rule you can use in the REAL WORLD. If you set up a thread asking if women would like to date a nerdy guy who works in a comic book store and spends his free time reading/watching sci-fi and playing video games you would get a YES! Doesn't mean it is reality. All I will say to answer this question is when I met my current gf she had a BF who she had been dating for over a year and who was living in her apartment with her. I asked her out and she pretty much went home and broke up with him and through him out of the apt.... Obviously this is a different situation then your hypo because they had been having problems before I came along and had been ON AGAIN OFF AGAIN. I have every reason to believe that most relationships like resteraunts die in the early stages for a NUMBER of different reasons your HYPO being one of them.
Jilly Bean Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 He wouldn't be back burner guy, he would be DONE guy. I'd be on to the new one and would stop dating the first one.
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