ecto-1 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 (edited) I've been talking to this woman for about over a month now...in her POF profile she says, "not single/looking" and says "looking for friends" But in her profile she has thing for being touchy feely, and she says, "The way to her heart, is a nice shoulder massage or back rub" And in her "first date" section, she says in part of it, that she's looking for the "man" to make the decision when it comes to going out. We've been chatting for a while, and I asked her what she did for a living, but says she wont' tell me, because people stalk her...and she won't talk on the phone for the same reason. <shrug> But will continue to be a chat buddy. Plus, she has in the "Looking for section: Men" obviously...so there you have it only seeking people of the opposite sex. I think some women, have a hard time admitting to placing a profile on the internet, and this is their way of coming off on paper that she isn't looking, but when trying to type up a profile.....it's hard to convince people of that because one winds up contradicting themselves. And if she can't find friends any other way, but a dating site, aren't there other social networking sites where she can pursue "just friends"? or just other ways in general? She won't talk on the phone, won't even tell me what she does for a living....and after a month is not even willing to give up that much info. Just a pen pal Edited June 20, 2010 by ecto-1
Serenitynow Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Welcome to the world of online losers. I've dealt with a few of these winners myself. She could be married, have a bf, or socially inept Or be using a picture of her hot friend on her profile. Most online daters are weird people
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