davisc123 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I know I should just forget about it but its bugging me anyway. Its been a few weeks now, she makes no attempt to contact me via text or anything. Which suits me fine, I am doing all I can to move on and I know she is now seeing the guy she cheated on me with. I can't avoid her in work all the time and on occasion she definitely tries to cross paths with me. I am dealing with this quite well, but it annoys me the way she looks searchingly at me and chatters away. I am just being polite and keeping it short before making a quick exit. Then a few days back I bumped into her at a local bar. I tried to avoid eye contact but she shouted on me then cornered me. I managed to stay breezy and didnt divulge much about how I was doing etc. She complimented me a few times and was really animated, telling me about things she had been getting up to. I made a couple of jokes and she laughed, perhaps a bit too much. The only thing I said to her was that I may be getting a new job, and she looked quite upset and said 'please dont forget me'. WTF! I made my excuses and walked away. I am trying not to analyse the whole thing but it is hard. I know she is seeing this guy, but she doesnt know I know. She isnt making any attempt to let me know, I'm presuming to spare my feelings. Any thoughts on this?
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