robinhill Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 my boyfriend has a tendency to flirt alot in front of me....it happened once in about our 4th wk together where we were falling for each other and things were wonderful...we went to a club with some of his friends and he proceeded to tak to this girl (not a good friend) for 45 minutes right in front of me and not even include me in the conversation.??? forward about 6 months we are still together at this point falling in love he is the chef in the building where I work...he hires a friend of his for the christmas season to be bartender...says to me...all the women in the building will be jealous she has huge boobs??...I am thinking 1, how immature and nasty to say that about women..and 2, since I dont have huge boobs..sounds like an insult to me. forward about a year...I found out that he had been sleeping with her she was not just a friend...I will never know if he slept with her while he was with me....but I know it was recently before me...he brought her into where I live...and did not tell me the truth. there have been lots of other little lies....I wonder if this is someone I could ever trust...who does this kind of stuff?
paleblue Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 is this guy a pig/potential cheater/liar The short answer to your question is: Yes.
LSNoob Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 He is, a pig, a potential cheater ( if not a cheater already ) AND a liar. The question is, why did you lower your self and go out with him? Dump that loser, get your self a real man. You deserve one .
White Dove Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 On top of all that, he's also disrespectful. Dump the loser, yes.
Author robinhill Posted June 20, 2010 Author Posted June 20, 2010 I confronted him with the flirting and of course he thought I was overreacting.....I wasnt ...we all know the difference between flirting and talking....but he did stop doing it. as for the waitress...I thought the comment was horrible..but let it go not sure why....and only recently found out that he had been sleeping with her....so even though it was awhile ago...it still shows his character...that he had her where I live, lied to me about their relationship and was insulting about it and disrespectful. I have caught him in alot of lies recently but just stupid ones that dont make sense.....but, I think this all points to someone not to be trusted. we get along great together....so sometimes that makes you overlook things that you shouldnt....I guess I am just looking for confirmation that this is not a good person...integrity wise.
ADF Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I guess I am just looking for confirmation that this is not a good person...integrity wise. If you haven't found enough evidence yet to suggest this man lacks integrity, I don't know how much it would take to convince you. This man chose you well. It sounds like you'll put up with nearly anything.
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