chrissy001 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 There is a guy, I started to like. We met, because we both are frequent patrons of one another place of employments. I am single and he "appears," to be single. The last two times he's come into were I work, he referred to me by the nickname on my car tag (kinda flirty). And the last time I was at his place of employment, he kind of "announced" my presences to his co-workers... So anyway I was thinking, the next time I went to were he works, I will (in confidence) try and get the "dish" from a co-worker... Then, if I find out that he is single... then when he asks how my food was (he's the GM of one of my favorite restaurants)... tell him he'll have to call me to find out & slip him my #...... 1st of all, am I reading too much into the flirting? And 2nd...is that too-- bold, should I wait and see if he makes the first move???? Thanks for the feedback
SincereOnlineGuy Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Dammit, you are a woman. AS a woman, you get a free pass to walk up to him directly and ask if he is "single". Save lots of time and mental chess participation by just doing that. You wouldn't even want to BE around the sort of a guy who wouldn't be at the very least "flattered" by your seeming interest.
D-Lish Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 I had a huge crush in a guy that managed a Starbucks I frequented- he flirted with me shamelessly. He turned out to be married. Guys in the restaurant business flirt- it keeps people coming back, and it's good for business. They also meet tons of hot girls in their line of work- including the endless parade of hot waitress's that work for them. I'd approach such a guy with caution.
jason83 Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 (edited) Never too bold. Personally, I love confident women. I'd say ask him flat out if he's single. But yes be prepared that he simply could be very flirtatious. A quick response back if he says he has a gf could be "Aw, that sucks. I have a friend who would have been perfect for you". Keeps it light and means your next interaction won't be uncomfortable. He might not believe you and insist it's you or give you a hard time about it but who cares. A white lie in that situation never hurts anyone Edited June 21, 2010 by jason83
Diezel Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 I tell women and men alike: Stay away from bartenders/waitresses/service people in restaurants. I used to be a bartender and I saw one too many other bartenders weeping after getting their Std tests with a nice little positive on it. I probably was one of the few that played it safe by not engaging in numerous extracurriculars. (1) I'd rather keep the tips. (2) Rather keep the customers (3) Rather keep my genitalia intact I'd have to incline to agree with D-Lish. proceed with caution. I saw one too many married/in relationship men and women that liked to flirt with disaster.
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