tiffyb Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 yep u heard it..my husbands girlfriend and i became friends 7 months ago..1 month after they broke up. weird i know. we became very close but now im sort of pissy at her for having the affair with my husband behind my back for 14 months. im taking a pole..text her and apologize for being upset & remain friends? or stay away & keep my "nasty b*t*h f...cked my husband" attitude? lol text her or ditch her?
pureinheart Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I would do niether and stay away...it might have worked being friends with her had you been able to really get past what happened...this is proof right here that this is impossible...hey good luck and so sorry for what happened...
Tayla Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 In understanding this particular thread ,I had to research previous posts of yours as you seem to be dwelling on methods or ways to retaliate against this Lady.Be her friend then cast her off? Why be her friend at all? Be your own friend and love yourself. You are supposedly 40 years old. Maturity comes with its pluses! One being, drop the teen behaviour. No one needs this when you are already being challenged with a spouse and a marriage that is struggling to heal. I have walked in your shoes ...I get your hurt, I get that you are in a tailspin, what I do not get is you are a mother and a wife in the age group from which when things like this happen, we don't regress to teen typing or teen surveys. Feedback, yes. Compassion, sometimes.
TaraMaiden Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Don't talk to him, don't talk to her. Why have a constant reminder around you of what exactly your husband saw that made him want to be in her bed, not yours? Do you need your nose rubbed in it that way? What is her gain in having you as a friend? Friendship should be based on a genuine personal connection with someone for what they are not who they are. If you've forged a friendship where your common denominator is a lying cheating man who had both of you - then that's not a good base. But don't be stupid about it and act like a hissy-fit teenager. Be dignified and just drop this.
tomcruise Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 That's strange feeling to having friendship with that and end up you feel pissy, why you don't feel it at that time?
getexnow Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 yep u heard it..my husbands girlfriend and i became friends 7 months ago..1 month after they broke up. weird i know. we became very close but now im sort of pissy at her for having the affair with my husband behind my back for 14 months. im taking a pole..text her and apologize for being upset & remain friends? or stay away & keep my "nasty b*t*h f...cked my husband" attitude? lol text her or ditch her? well, you already are friends and what was happened was happened and are part of the past.. you should move on. building friendship with this girl is such a nice way to start. ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________ how to get your ex back | get ex back
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