bananaboat11 Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 ARGH. "Hey there, kinda random but I bought a cook book that caters to what you cooked for us b/c the food I had with you was so good" ------- no I haven't replied. Nor do I intend to.
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 20, 2010 Author Posted June 20, 2010 **** you X. Don't contact me again. /rant this message will not self destruct, but I wish it would. FML
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 20, 2010 Author Posted June 20, 2010 SHe wants to meet up for coffee.... ugh. why did I respond?! The last thing I want with her is a friendship when she tells me she wants to be with her ex... but then why text me today about 'us' and remind me? why think of us? Why want to meet up? Argh....
heavensmesenger Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 She's messaging you to make sure your in her back pocket, just in case things don't work out with him. It's a power thing she wants to know that you'll make her feel better and that she can run to you whenever she wants. People want what they can't have it's human nature. Tell her to **** off you deserve better then her bull****.
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 21, 2010 Author Posted June 21, 2010 So I texted her this evening, "Hey there - happy father's day. Hope everything is ok? Wondering what the purpose of meeting up so early is?" her reply? "Thanks, you too. Oh no reason, just don't want to push people out of my life right now, but if it's too soon for you we can wait some more." That was assinine in my opinion like she's stringing me along... we only dated/relationship for 2 months... my reply... "I had fun and all with you and you’re a great girl and I really like you, but right now I’m not interested in whatever this is and I feel that the reason we stopped talking for a period was to help us both and I just don’t think that this friendship will work right now." ...I await her response, but I can't fathom it'll be good. If she really wants to be with me.. she'll make it work. Otherwise.. good riddance. I'm not going to let a girl play with my head and my heart. It's just not fair. I hate these games. I'm done.
TouchedByViolet Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Tell her to **** off you deserve better then her bull****. I like it! haha BB11, sounds like this girl has really got to you. Try to take a step back and realize the bad qualities she has shown you.
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 21, 2010 Author Posted June 21, 2010 I don't regret what I did, but I feel like .. I don't know. I like her. She never actively did me wrong... could her lack of a response and her not deFacebooking me be her trying to assess how she feels for me. she liked me once but admitted to me she couldn't give me a relationship now. She suffers ptsd and I want to be supportive but between those things and her not being over her ex... I just can't do this friendship thing now, but in no way am I forcing her to be my girl.... I wish she would, but I dunno anymore...
AlwaysConflicted Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 I like your direct approach. Girls are more attracted to that kind of stuff. I'm tempted to send a long romantic email to my ex and that would probably hurt me. I think your option is better. Be a man, take charge and be honest. I need to follow your lead.
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 21, 2010 Author Posted June 21, 2010 And here we are.. dancing among the stars. Wish I knew what she was looking for... but only time may tell.
heavensmesenger Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 I do feel your pain and confusion but your worth more. Leave her to it continue NC and do your own thing. I can only be as blunt as this: If she wants to be with you she'd be with you. Don't play games with her, she either wants you or she doesn't and it sounds to me like she's keeping tabs on you just incase she needs somebody to boost her self esteem. Stay strong
123BeachFan Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Nothing screams NC more than your ignoring her texts. The next one that comes in, resist the urge to respond.
LovelyDaze Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Nothing screams NC more than your ignoring her texts. The next one that comes in, resist the urge to respond. This is too true. I haven't been on here for awhile, banana. I hate to see you going through the heartbreak tunnel again. You know what you need to do...no longer respond to her. Anything short of her wanting to have a serious discussion of reconciling is bunk.
DenverBachelor Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 "Hey there - happy father's day. Hope everything is ok? Wondering what the purpose of meeting up so early is?" Why are you wishing a woman a happy father's day? Is this really a "woman?" You're not telling us the whole story, here. Are you dating transexuals?
EricaH329 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Why are you wishing a woman a happy father's day? I was wondering the same thing...
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