bluz73 Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 As you all know I have been on this site for way too long struggling with letting him go and focus on me. As I posted a few days ago, i wrote my ex an apology message via FB(he isnt on my friends list) I was kind and genuinely sorry for being crazy and harrassing and cussing out his new GF. I actually forgave him for leaving me behind at the worst possible time in my life. I asked for his forgiveness. I didnt expect a reply, I just needed it off my chest. so i told my best friend bout this which is a guy. He without my knowing sent him a terrible message telling him off for treating woman the way he did me and not responding to my message and for being sick to date a highschool girl ect...well my ex replied to him but not me and said he wanted to meet him and talk about it in person. How weird is that? He said he isnt ready to forgive me? I just want to know what is worse...Leaving a 6 year relationship for someone else? or your ex telling off your new GF? How i can be so forgiving and he is still holding a dam grudge! I feel free now I made my effort at peace:)
LoveTruthChaos Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 so i told my best friend bout this which is a guy. He without my knowing sent him a terrible message telling him off for treating woman the way he did me and not responding to my message and for being sick to date a highschool girl ect...well my ex replied to him but not me and said he wanted to meet him and talk about it in person. Your ex will never respond to you. The reason he responded to your friend was in a 'meet me in the carpark after school so I can rearrange your face' kind of way. Your ex is a man whore with a big ego, and your guy friend needs not to get involved. Karma will come to your ex, because he's immature and has no self control. That behaviour always gets people into trouble. Glad you're at peace now
Author bluz73 Posted June 20, 2010 Author Posted June 20, 2010 Your ex will never respond to you. The reason he responded to your friend was in a 'meet me in the carpark after school so I can rearrange your face' kind of way. Your ex is a man whore with a big ego, and your guy friend needs not to get involved. Karma will come to your ex, because he's immature and has no self control. That behaviour always gets people into trouble. Glad you're at peace now Thank you for not judging me, I truly was being sincere from the bottom of my heart. Does he hate me that much to just not care? Or is there lingering feelings for me there somewhere he dont want to feel again? I mean we shared 6 years..how can anybody be so cold to another human?
LoveTruthChaos Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 People are and will be so cold. I'm going through the same thing. My ex doesn't give a damn, and with each day that goes by, neither do I. I have to be as heartless as he is in order to survive. I honestly don't have the answers because I'm asking the same questions. But I care only about what makes me happy, no one else. I've been in strict no contact from day one, and that will never change for as long as I live. I have my bouts of anger (just had a crying spree 5 minutes ago), but I have to try and stay strong. If I'm not okay, then I have nothing.
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