Bangle Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 When you get a girls number, do you call or text and when do you call or text? A day later, two days later, a week later? I don't like to play games, so I would ring up the day after but my friends think it is too soon and i'll come across as being too strong, what do the ladies on here think?
Author Bangle Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 Skills? I'm not a footballer, I'm no Lucas Podolski. So anytime? Call or text? I'd prefer to call as I see texting as a kids craze and I'm not a child and one quick phone call is better than tens of textes.
Author Bangle Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 women and nice guys are stupid, real men have skills You never answered my questions.
Engadget Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 Bangle this guy is a troll, ignore him. It all depends on the specific situation, but generally a day or so is good. Calling too soon to a lot of women reeks of desperation, waiting too long means you're not interested. Unless of course the connection is so strong, you simply can't wait. Then you need to get the signs and all that.
Author Bangle Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 Thanks, I'll ignore him. So a day or two? I just don't want to play games, I am 22 years old and I'm tired of games, if I want to play games I'll sit on my Xbox, but I just don't want to screw things up and come across as being too strong. I have heard of this three day rule, but I don't want to be dictated to by rules.
Engadget Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 Thanks, I'll ignore him. So a day or two? I just don't want to play games, I am 22 years old and I'm tired of games, if I want to play games I'll sit on my Xbox, but I just don't want to screw things up and come across as being too strong. I have heard of this three day rule, but I don't want to be dictated to by rules. Three days seems a bit excessive, and the girl I'm seeing now laughed at how stupid she thinks that rule is, but she said two days. I mean if you have a date late at night, calling 24 hours later could work, just don't call so soon that she gets scared off type of thing.
Author Bangle Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 So about two days? Is there anything wrong with phoning the day afterwards? Does it seems too strong?
jason83 Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 A call or text the day after wouldn't be bad. Just a "hey what are you up to tonight?" type of thing. Keep it light. When I got my gf's number, she told me flat out "I don't do that whole three day waiting thing so you can either call me right away or forget it"....I sent her a text a little later that day and said "I waited 3 hours....did I have you wondering long enough?" We ended up getting together that very night and hanging out. Every woman is different
JohnnyDrama Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 Three days seems a bit excessive, and the girl I'm seeing now laughed at how stupid she thinks that rule is, but she said two days. I mean if you have a date late at night, calling 24 hours later could work, just don't call so soon that she gets scared off type of thing. The girl I just started seeing thinks this 24 hr rule or whatever is ridiculous.
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