terminalmoraine Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 Just been broken up about 5-6 weeks. We had no communication at all. Last night I received a text all it said was "Hey X". He dumped me and it was from him. Do you think he is playing mind games?, should I reply?
ResetReality Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 well before you jump the gun with not replying at all, do you want him back? or have you moved on?
Author terminalmoraine Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 In a way yes I really loved him. The problem is I always felt I was walking on eggshells with him trying to please him. When we first split my head was in a dark place. I am only starting to feel okay again. They say lighting never strikes the same place twice. My gut tells me to let go but I can't help but wonder what if?
ResetReality Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 yeah, the what if, if i was in your position, id hang tight on the text or contact for a few more days, say 1 maybe 2 days, then send him one back, but don't talk about getting back together straight away, instead talk about how positive your life has been, if an offer for a coffee or drink rises maybe take it and suggest that you need to take things slowly, and work from there. I know about the what if, I guess if you give it another go and it doesn't work again then you know for definite, but then again, could you go through the pain all over again? BTW NC for 5-6 weeks is a fantastic achievement! well done for getting through that I know it couldn't of been easy but it goes to show how strong you are!
ADF Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 9 times out of 10, when male exes contact female exes, they're just hard up and fishing for sex. Don't answer.
Author terminalmoraine Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 When he broke up with me I begged to stay friends. He said he would text me the next day he never did. It took all my strength I defriended him off my social networking site and gave my phone to my friend for two weeks until I began to feel I wouldn't feel the urgent need to text. When I realised he hadn't text to see how I was considering it was right in the middle of my University exams it showed me how little he cared. I do have a gut instinct he would use me. I wish he could have saw what he put me through. I sure don't want to go back to that misery.
S.Tee Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Move on. Just a simple text does not mean anything. He might have regretted now but should have the guts to be direct (calling or longer text). So this time it does not mean anything. You just carry on and be strong. Maybe when next message comes, do not get excited. Just reply if you feel to (depend on the content, if simple text...don't bother). Maybe he wish to reconcile, but check on the reason and go slow. You had given him enough time and after more than a month to figure out does not show sincere. Anyway, just wait till the next round comes. For now, go on with your life, so far so good.
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