moodoo Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 (edited) ok so lets see....a year ago, I want to shoot a commercial for my company and I call an agency and hire a gorgeous model, she shows up shoots, the commercial and we joke a bit but nothing serious she has a bf.....fast forward to feb this year, she breaks up with him in january, texts me in feb saying shes gonna be in vegas, bc i live in LA and says, " i see your fb all the time i know your up in vegas all the time and love to party.....im here just broke up with my bf and i need to have fun!!!!" Anyways, cant meet her in vegas, but next time she's in LA she hits me up we have dinner the night before valentines day, laugh and go party with my friends overall awesome night. The next 2 weeks shes in town we see each other every night she makes out with me a ton, spends the night in my bed naked, but wont have sex with me. She says she only sleeps with guys she's dating. She's not a virgin or anything. She says she just got out of a long relationship and doesnt want a boyfriend now.Anyways I tell her ok great and after a little texting over the next few weeks I move on and start dating another girl, lie to her abt it, and she finds out from a friend of hers seeing me with the girl.....basically stops talking to me for 6 weeks. Then about 3 weeks ago, she messages me, says she really missed out friendship and nobody makes her laugh like me, few messages later, we end up meeting in LA for a day of drinks, and it was a great day we had an awesome time, it ended with her kissing me on the cheek and saying she's glad we're friends again. the last 3 days she's written all over my facebook wall, commented on all my photos i posted recently and called me to meet her in vegas on the 4th, bc the 2 girls she's going with are leaving on the 4th and she's staying till the 7th and she said i should meet her and itll be just us staying in her room....but she once again says she wants us to be just friends....its like wtf, I lied to this girl, she clearly had her chance to sleep with me and didn't....I don't know what she wants. My friends think its bc im rich and she knows it, but Im a good looking guy and can get girls like her without money.....but she is a 10 and just a great person and an attorney to boot well she just graduated law school last month! So all in all she gets me, I just don't know what I should do about going to vegas alone with her....what would you do in my situation when girl invites you but tells you nothing is going to happen even though you've alreayd hooked up but never slept together....WTF women are so damn confusing and if she wasn't literally perfect in every aspect i would've bailed long ago, but Im hooked now damnit! Edited June 19, 2010 by moodoo
shleybutler Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 I don't know. I mean, as a woman, I have to admit there are times when I feel lonely and crave spending time with a guy. It's nice to have physical interaction, but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm looking for sex. Maybe to men sex feels like the ultimate goal, but sometimes it's just nice to be physically close to someone without bringing sex into it because that usually changes things. I understand how this might make some guys feel used, though. I guess the whole going or not going thing would depend on what you really want to get out of this. Is spending time with her without having sex good enough for you? If so, go. If you're gonna end up being disappointed when she doesn't wanna have sex, maybe it'd be best not to go.
Lipsy10 Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 Sounds to me like shes leading you on. Think about it, she just got out of a relationship and is feeling a bit down so she calls you for an ego boost cos she knows you fancy her. She makes out with you and sleeps naked with you but wont have sex with you. WTF? She's told you she doesn't want a relationship but then she does things like this. Sorry but that girl is a tease. Continue to see her if you like her as a friend but I really don't think your gonna what you want from her.
FitChick Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 She sounds passive aggressive and probably has a lot of anger issues with men in general. She wants to know she can control you. Looks like she can!
Author moodoo Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 thanks for the input.....but clearly she likes me right? Do women just continue hanging out with a guy and make out with him and even sleep with him if they dont? Plus the fact I lied to her abt seeing another girl and then she came back and said she missed our friendship after not talking forever, doesnt that mean she wants me. I just dont get why after spending 3 days in vegas with her girlfriends, she wants me to come up and spend 3 days ALONE with her if she truly wants nothing from me. I mean we have an awesome time together but c'mon!!
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