bflat420 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 so this girl and i talk like 24 7 and she is so shy like she tries to avoid hanging out with me...but i know she likes me and i like her too, we always talk about it...but there is just always an excuse to not hang out, and she says she tries and wants to hang out with me but she is always busy..i say bs she has to have some time to hang out with me...im just getting tired of waiting so much, and im want this to end, but its so hard to just let her go...there is a side of me that ****ing hates her, and then the side that really likes her... i wish i can just tell her i'm done, but i can't cuz i cant let her go like that...i really like her..but i dont want to..i want to look at her like i do any other girl and not care if she likes me or not...i just want to forget about her but its so hard to...
Versa Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 go to her house and knock on her door and aske her out, if she says no then say goodbye move on
here4u Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 Ok I know its going to b hard but just kinda ignore her- like don't look for her - just make. It seem like ur just not there whenever- stop seing her for at least- a week Just give her a lil space - if shr says she likes u she will eventually wonder what happened or maybe even fear losing u- idk - give a hard time but don't be rude- and don't act to much just act normal- hope it helps- try it! If u have more questions - talk to me- oh n I understand it going to be hard but trust me u will get an answer - u must disciplined ur self
Author bflat420 Posted June 21, 2010 Author Posted June 21, 2010 hey guys thanks, but she just gets really shy and scared and backs off and tries to avoid hanging out. and the thing is she just gives up too easily, she won't fight, she will just give up..and i dont want that i want her to keep trying, but i wish i can be like whatever, if i ignore her, she will move on
123BeachFan Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 She was trying to keep you as her Option back in December - February timeframe (under the guise of being friends), but you saw where that left you and you wisely got out. Now she's trying to put you back in that spot. Resist the urge NOW before you get sucked back in and have to plan a similar exit strategy to avoid being strung along. Never make someone a priority who's made you their option.
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