nemi26 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Hi, i just signed up a few mins ago, i dont really know what to do or say on this site but i just need some tips or advice on my situation. okay so.. weve only known each other a few weeks and we got together on monday, i think we only did this because we knew he was going away and we'd rather be in a relationship when hes away than a loose end because we both really really like each other. well last time i saw him was weds night, he left thursday and today its friday, i already miss him, EVERYTHING literally everything somehow reminds me of him, more obvvious than others but i seem to relate everything back to him, like at placement (i study childcare) a boy mentioned new york from a book he was reading and omg it made me soo upset :S (because thats where he is).. hmmm oh btw hes away till the 31st aug .. my birthday is on the 26th July, he said he'll do something for us both when he gets back..his in september i havent mentioned how shy he is, and i thought i was shy, its so cute! i know its not fake, ive seen his family and they say he is, well anyway it kinda makes me believe what he says, im naturally a negative person in general so i have doubts about this working.. i know you must be thinkin its not worth it but i really want it to be ..we both think we could be amazing when he gets back, we have been the 5 times weve met up.. i just dont wanna loose something i believe could be good.. septemeber isnt forever away isit? has anyone else been in a similar situation or just anyone say something back to help me out.. lastly he wont be on a comp so we cant mail.. his sister mailed me on fb sayin hes rung home, his sim isnt working right and cant get through to mobiles. so thats nice of her to let me know, she said he mentioned me first in the phone call.. thats another thing anyone know mobile costs.. im on virgin mobile..ive been on their website it says 20p a text to usa and 20p a min, that just dont sound right :S thanks for reading, please give me any info/tips/advice you can. thanks again. xx
carvidep Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 i know you must be thinkin its not worth it but i really want it to be well, you haven't given us a ton of details about how you two interact, but you sound genuinely happy, and the fact that his family vouches for him is a definite plus! so of course it's worth it! Also, the end of August isn't all too far away. I have to wait that long to see my sweetie again too, so I'm right there with ya! As for the contact issue, if you guys still can't get the phone/computer methods to work, send some letters or cards. Everybody loves snail mail! And try to look at it in a positive light, this way you guys will have tons of stories to share with each other when you do get to talk! Welcome to LS! Good luck with your new special somebody!
Author nemi26 Posted June 18, 2010 Author Posted June 18, 2010 i know you must be thinkin its not worth it but i really want it to be well, you haven't given us a ton of details about how you two interact, but you sound genuinely happy, and the fact that his family vouches for him is a definite plus! so of course it's worth it! Also, the end of August isn't all too far away. I have to wait that long to see my sweetie again too, so I'm right there with ya! As for the contact issue, if you guys still can't get the phone/computer methods to work, send some letters or cards. Everybody loves snail mail! And try to look at it in a positive light, this way you guys will have tons of stories to share with each other when you do get to talk! Welcome to LS! Good luck with your new special somebody! we havent been in contact since he went because he cant get in touch with me thats why his sister mailed me, i hope he does soon though. big thanks for the reply and thanks for the good luck!
Citizen Erased Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I'm with virgin mobile as well, don't waste money with them. look into lebara mobile...that's who I use when I call my bf, it's a lot cheaper. Apart from that, august really isn't that far away. It's hard but if you like him enough you will get through it.
StarrySkyBlue Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 It sounds hopeful for you Time apart might feel like forever, but be strong and optimistic and you'll pull through it! One thing, though, is that long-distance is expensive. I'm in a long-distance relationship now and I can tell you my phone bills (even when you get the best deal) leave me with almost no extra money to spend on anything else . At least yours have a definite end in sight, and that's good!
Author nemi26 Posted June 19, 2010 Author Posted June 19, 2010 I'm with virgin mobile as well, don't waste money with them. look into lebara mobile...that's who I use when I call my bf, it's a lot cheaper. Apart from that, august really isn't that far away. It's hard but if you like him enough you will get through it. well he has a global number starting with 44... and hes texting me off that, sometimes if my text is too long he cant understand it, but its free to text him on that number because i have unlimited texts but sometimes they go in a weird language he says, he also has a us number starting with +1... i tried that it cost me 20p but he hasnt used that or going to use it. he doesnt know how to ring me and i dont know how to ring him :S im finding sites and there all telling me different stuff :S do you know? thanks.
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