AlwaysConflicted Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I was just looking through my old emails and found over 30 email and instant message conversations. They were all so loving and sounded so fun. We loved each other and life was great. Cut to now...we're broken up and haven't spoken in a month. I feel awful.
cdt76 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I have one I keep. It is a string of emails that I saved way back when. It was me, basically begging for some reasonable explanation of her behavior. I am glad I kept it because it reminds me how she totally quit, didn't try, and didn't care how badly I hurt. It was good to keep. All the others along with pictures I've deleted.
Author AlwaysConflicted Posted June 18, 2010 Author Posted June 18, 2010 Yeah, I don't have any bad emails, they're all happy and loving. I'll delete all of mine since I don't have a reminder like you do.
mickleb Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 yeah i would delete all of those McGrupp, mon dieu, you appear to have become the kind-of 'white rock' version of alphamale. x
teanoranges Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 woke up one day.. deleted over 300 emails from him... maybe over 500! didn't count... don't miss them.. in fact, I don't care at all. Your day will come... took me a long time to do it.
chooch Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 DELETE THEM ALL. every last one. I did this the other day and man it helps. it means you can't read them ever again! I also burned everything to remind me of her as well - legitimately, not in an act of arson! And I'm still struggling to get over her. But do it!
White Dove Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 I had a folder of all his emails -- about 200 - 300 emails. Most emails were exchanged when he went abroad to further his studies. Deleted them all after 2 or 3 years. The last I read some of them was at the time I deleted the folder. Didn't regret my decision -- at all!
Author AlwaysConflicted Posted June 20, 2010 Author Posted June 20, 2010 It's just so crazy that at one point in our lives we were so in love and the emails we're just so happy and awesome. and now... she has no feelings for me at all. It's startling how emotions can just shift from AMAZINGLY HAPPY to I DON'T WANT TALK TO YOU ANYMORE
ukguy1985 Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 I have one I keep. It is a string of emails that I saved way back when. It was me, basically begging for some reasonable explanation of her behavior. I am glad I kept it because it reminds me how she totally quit, didn't try, and didn't care how badly I hurt. It was good to keep. All the others along with pictures I've deleted. ive done the same in asking why she did this, and she never responded and instead uploaded a new pic on her profile as a dig.
harkkam Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 It's just so crazy that at one point in our lives we were so in love and the emails we're just so happy and awesome. and now... she has no feelings for me at all. It's startling how emotions can just shift from AMAZINGLY HAPPY to I DON'T WANT TALK TO YOU ANYMORE[/QUOTE] I agree and wonder that myself, how the hell things can go to sh*t so fast after so long. I guess the writing was on the wall and we never looked carefully
BiAxident Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 It's just so crazy that at one point in our lives we were so in love and the emails we're just so happy and awesome. and now... she has no feelings for me at all. It's startling how emotions can just shift from AMAZINGLY HAPPY to I DON'T WANT TALK TO YOU ANYMORE I hear that. In my case it was "if you would have said you wanted to go out a week ago, that would have been one thing. But now?"
DenverBachelor Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 It's just so crazy that at one point in our lives we were so in love and the emails we're just so happy and awesome. and now... she has no feelings for me at all. It's startling how emotions can just shift from AMAZINGLY HAPPY to I DON'T WANT TALK TO YOU ANYMORE That's just how women's brains are wired. They're like a sudoku puzzle where the numbers change each time you figure one out. But yeah, delete those. I know it is wild and crazy that she could go from such warmth to being so cold towards you. That's why you have expressions like, "all is fair in love and war," etc. That's because nobody totally understands them, but we definitely feel the effects.
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