sexist friend breaks up relationship?

[bekalee]

Hey everyone, i'm new here so be easy on me, but I'm just wanting to know peoples thoughts on my situation. I've been hurt so much by men and maybe it's because I keep making bad choices but I thought for sure with this one recently after knowing him as a friend for a month that he seemed like a decent guy... I don't know.

 

I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months, everything was great in my opinion (other for one of his friends which who was very sexist and open about it around women so I was always very uncomfortable around him, especially in the week before my ex bf broke up with me as he was talking about how he liked to hire female escorts and I then walked out of the room ) we cooked together, cleaned our houses together, always were doing things for each other, and a week before he broke up with me he even had invited me to go camping with his family in a month.....and then one day (after him calling and texting everyday) I don't hear from him. He made plans to see me and I had to ring him to find out that he had cancelled because he had to fix a website for his mates dad. After a couple of days I start to become paranoid and abit emotional about the situation and ring him and ask him if everything is okay between us and if not to let me know. He tells me everything is fine. I then say that I have been feeling as though his feelings are not the same anymore but he says that it cannot be further from the truth, so we made plans to see each other a couple of days after and got off the phone. The day comes when we're suppose to meet up and I don't hear from him all day. I write him a text (which I usually never have to do first) and ask him what's happening with our day and if we're still doing something. He hadn't replied by night and I had a sick feeling in my stomach about the situation but I didn't know if I was being paranoid or not so at the end of the week I ring his home phone and his house mate answers and I couldn't help but ask him if my ex bf was avoiding me. He tells me yes and I ask him how long for and his housemate tells me for about a week and that my bf had been asking him how to tell me. I then got off the phone and completely over reacted, sent my ex bf a txt message saying I was hurt etc, and then when I didn't hear from him by the end of the day until I rung him and he answered and was completely rude and cold to me. I couldn't believe that I was even talking to the same guy. There was no sympathy or compassion in his voice. He tells me that he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore, I ask him why, he comes up with excuses saying how i'm still studying and don't have a full time job. I then start crying and he says "you're suppose to be studying psychology". I mean what? Does just studying psychology mean that I'm not suppose to have emotion or that I was just suppose to have him figured out? Anyway he tells me he can't "handle" me in an angry voice and that he's leaving the conversation, I say "fine, goodbye" and then hang up. I then proceeded to delete him off and out of everything so I would have no way to contact him at all. It's been a week now since then and i'm guessing that i'm not going to hear from him again. I've been trying to be really strong even though it's so difficult because I just want to ring him and ask him what I did wrong but I know he will probably not give me any answers. I'm thinking that because he had invited me to go camping with his parents a week earlier and then a day later when I was at his house with his mates and that mate started talking about escorts and I walked out of the room, that maybe his mate said something, and as they are a very clicky group of guys, that he listened to his mate. I know at 24 most guys are still wanting to party and are not ready to settle down but I didn't think my ex bf would just break up with me because of his mate? I don't know... what do you guys think???

[ADF]

Please use better punctuation and split this into paragraphs. It is too hard to read this way.