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Not sure where to post this.

 

Last night I had a dream for the first time ever about my bf. I went with a friend somewhere outdoors, and sat down at a table next to another woman that was looking intense and didn't even say hi. Than all of a sudden my bf comes out of a door and looks very surprised at me (like what are you doing here) and that well hmm ok I have to interduce you, and says nothing more. So I give the girl my hand and am saying Hi I am Sarah, Carl's girlfriend and this is my friend Jane. She than didn't even say her name just looked at my bf and says WHAT....so I repeat myself and she asked him something in the matter why don't I know what's going on???

At that moment I got up and walked to another area, where I still could see them. And just saw them sitting there, she seemed mean in general. No words out of him all dream. I must have layed down on my belly in the dream and all of a sudden something is pulling me up very fast - and bahm sure enough I wake up

 

What does that mean? Any idea? My bf and I have a close relationship for the past 4 years, he has been working out of town for the past 6 month and we don't get to see each other that much. But talk daily. He is very involved with my kids as well.

My ex husband cheated on me for the longest time, and he was always gone traveling for his job. I wonder if I have some fear deep down of having to experience that again.

 

This is the first time I am dreaming about something like this, I feel little disturbed. And feedback would be very very appreciatet.

Thank you

 

PS. I changes our names...lol

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asrgal, you are so sweet and intelligent. I think we do have intuition that alerts us, etc., However, I wouldn't really gauge my life by this. Do you have any indications that you had from your ex husband with your boyfriend? If not, just stay in prayer about it. I would say pay attention to your interactions and possible similarities to your past situation, but don't read anything into or create anything in your relationship based on this dream. I really suggest prayer and observation, not suspicion. I think many times with visualization and concentration, sometimes we create our own reality. Just observe and pray. The truth always comes out in the natural, when we are calm, focused, and sober in the spiritual. I hope this helps. Be blessed and wish you continued success and love in your relationship:) That's what I pray for in reference to your situation:)

Posted (edited)

Considering all of it, I think your dream might have just been a way for you to process the fact that you miss him right now. Since he is working out of town, perhaps what this dream might be expressing via metaphor is feeling a bit left out? While it might be linked to past experience, I really don't think there's anything to worry about -- at least nothing I can glean from your post.

 

It's a really interesting dream, I love to try to decipher what dreams mean. You may want to tell your bf about it, and see what he thinks.

Edited by deux ex machina
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