romer Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 NOW I understand why you should not do this... just a few words to describe the experience: mechanical, empty, loveless, fast. The feelings that I have now are self loathing, confused, angry, and sad. Bash away folks. I deserve it!!!
Ilovecake Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Sorry that happened to you but it's good that you're posting this. I think people could really benefit from it. You got burned, now you know better and you won't be touching that hot stove again. Lesson learned; don't let it bring you down.
Author romer Posted June 18, 2010 Author Posted June 18, 2010 Yep. Lesson definitely learned. I felt that I had tread into no man's land, seeing the look of complete disconnection on my ex's face. Like I was some kind of mindless conquest. I guess when he called and asked if we could get together I thought was going to beg me to come back...when he suggested we have sex, I thought something was better than nothing and look where I am. And he is seeing someone whom he supposedly really cares for, or so he told me. This is why I thought he wanted ME back. I am truly regretting what I did. I suppose now I am going to have to go completely NC with him.
What_Next Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Wow that is awful. Especially if he is seeing someone. Don't beat up on yourself too much. Use it as fuel, fuel to ensure you can put this person out of your life. Kharma will eventually deal with him, you deal with yourself. It was a mistake, we all make mistakes, some bigger than others though. Write it off, move on and as you say go completely NC, no exceptions.
Ilovecake Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I suppose now I am going to have to go completely NC with him. He used you with absolutely no regard for your feelings, so yeah I guess if you want to keep any dignity whatsoever it would be a good idea to completely cut him out of your life.
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