ecto-1 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 There had been times where I've initially gone out with women or had been talking to women, and they're very last relationship was some one they had to put a restraining order on....or some abusive or alcoholic or drug using ex boyfriend they decide to FINALLY dump, but the ex couldn't deal with it and kept calling/harassing her at night, stalking her, etc. Gentleman, that being said, would you avoid dating a woman with a last relationship being as such? Even though YOU are a decent joe, her past choice she finally decided to dump was a complete drama like situation. Would you risk even having your tires slashed or even worse by a said previous jealous ex?
bananaboat11 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 There had been times where I've initially gone out with women or had been talking to women, and they're very last relationship was some one they had to put a restraining order on....or some abusive or alcoholic or drug using ex boyfriend they decide to FINALLY dump, but the ex couldn't deal with it and kept calling/harassing her at night, stalking her, etc. Gentleman, that being said, would you avoid dating a woman with a last relationship being as such? Even though YOU are a decent joe, her past choice she finally decided to dump was a complete drama like situation. Would you risk even having your tires slashed or even worse by a said previous jealous ex? My recent ex was dating a retard abuser who is a womanizer and misogynist. She left him b/c of many bad things, but she was 'attached' to him. 7 weeks into OUR relationship, she starts hanging out with him again. I tell her it makes me uncomfortable... a week later her and me are 'just friends' in no contact while she's back with him. I'm glad I put my foot down earlier rather than later. It's been a week since we broke/stopped speaking/took space... I give it a few omre days to hear from her. then I delete her number... her facebook and move on with my life.
Krytie TV Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 You need to know the woman pretty well. Believe it or not, not every woman "asks" for it. Some just have the pleasure of being jerk magnets.
ADF Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Yes, I would. To do otherwise would be to punish her for her ex-boyfriend's psycho behavior. So long as she was doing everything in her power to deal with teh situation, she deserves support.
phineas Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 It would really depend on the woman. If she can honestly tell me why she stayed with him & that she recognizes the red flags she ignored then i'd give it a shot. But if she just blames it all on him without ackowledging she put up with that behavior i'd stay away simply because I'm just not cappable of generating the drama to keep her interested.
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