ecto-1 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 ...she won't add me to her facebook friends list. I've been out twice with this woman, even had been intimate (nothing sexual) but kissing and a lot of hardcore flirting and naughty talk, however, when I tried to add her to my FB Friends list, she didnt want to add me....she said she reserves her FB for mostly her family and that's and that us keeping in touch via the phone and other means is enough for her. Think she's got something to hide?
White Dove Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 My FB is for friends I have known for a long time. I do not add people I've only gone out with a few times. If anyone requested to be added and I do not know them well enough, I simply ignore the requests. I agree that you should be concerned if she doesn't add you when you are both exclusive.
Krytie TV Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Resist the urge to obsess about FB. RISE above it. Deny the mindless social norms!
phineas Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 facebook? seriously? If she's a friend fiend with over 200 friends are you going to examine every guy on her list? I know people like that. They drive themselves crazy with insecurity. don't be that guy.
JohnnyDrama Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Don't worry about that garbage. I have been out with a girl twice I have seen her facebook profile but I haven't even been tempted to okay me as a friend. In fact I would rather it stay that way and see what develops the girl. I agree with others don't worry about other guys on her facebook. I don't mind facebook but out of all my friends I only keep tabs on maybe 10% of them. Don't worry about that.
USMCHokie Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I absolutely refuse to add a girl I'm initially dating to my Facebook friends list unless we make it to a relationship. Too much crap that can go wrong and it simply makes things more complicated than necessary. It doesn't matter if she has anything to hide. You've only been out with her a few times. You doesn't owe you anything. Get over it.
JohnnyDrama Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I absolutely refuse to add a girl I'm initially dating to my Facebook friends list unless we make it to a relationship. Too much crap that can go wrong and it simply makes things more complicated than necessary. It doesn't matter if she has anything to hide. You've only been out with her a few times. You doesn't owe you anything. Get over it. Agreed. Too much stuff can go on and ask yourself would you rather just have a relationship without everybody know about it or would you rather have a relationship being plastered on facebook? Who cares about that stuff.
Art_Critic Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 If people added every person they go out on a date or two that would be just too much work.. After the 4th date 99% of the people we date would have to be unfriended.. I wouldn't worry about it.. Later on if you guys wind up in a relationship and she still won't add you then you have a reason to wonder.. but not after 2 dates.. she doesn't even know you yet and you don't even know her yet...
bac Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 I agree that FB is a very important tool for dating. I personally can not even imagine how people could mate and reproduce in the past before FB came along.
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