plt09 Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 (edited) I was with my ex for 3 yrs we've known each other since we were maybe 12 anyways i have a lot of memories with him that I cannot let go of and never thought I'd see the day we were not together anymore.We didn't have the best relationship but we had good times. He was going to actually propose to me but i found out i was pregnant wit someone else who I don't even want to be with AT ALL! So of course he wants to be with me but feels like he cannot since we always planned on having our first baby together.But he hooked up with a girl a week later and they started saying "I love you' a month later which is so annoying.He still stays in contact with me but i hate how she gets all the attention I used to get.He says he loves me but it doesn't matter because he's with her. I just don't know what to do with myself I have never felt so depressed in my entire life. Like seriously I cry out of nowhere thinking about what we could have had if I just didn't get pregnant from someone else.I hate being pregnant with a guy who wants me but I dont want him and being miserable that my ex is happy with someone else.Oh and my ex wanted me to get an abortion (I did too) but i chose not to because I felt like that wouldn't be right.I didn't cheat on him we were not together but as soon as we were getting back together is when I found out I was pregnant.Im hoping I'll just be happy after my baby comes. But I need some help dealing with this right now. Edited June 17, 2010 by plt09 Forgot something
SouthernSunshine Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Your main concern right now should be your upcoming baby! You're going to be a mommy! The last thing you need to worry about is some guy from a previous relationship. Who cares what he's doing! I'm glad you didn't get an abortion, but you have got to get your priorities straight, fast! Before you know it you'll be in the delivery room having your baby.
ADF Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Oh no, no no. You two are clearly WAY too immature to even be dating, never mind raising a child.
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