ankit Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 hi friends i am dating a girl from last 1 month. i think she is starting to get a little possessive . in the beginning of our relationship i was reluctant because of this reason so i broke with her initially. But later i thought all girls are like that so "what the hell" she is really beautiful , smart and caring and i feel a lot for her. "but women" yesterday i was with my friend and did not call her in time ,she became very upset. i can see that she does not like any slack from my side. The problem now is that i dont want to see her sad and will give her more attention that will make her more possessive. the cause of her possessiveness i think is a fundamental flaw in the psyche to depend extra ordinarily on their men , in my country you can not even imagine. she does not like talking to much of her friends. I could not tell her to do so because that will be changing her. What should i do so that she become more relaxed and less possessive?
Enema Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Can you be more specific about her possessive behaviour?
TaurusTerp Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 hi friends i am dating a girl from last 1 month. i think she is starting to get a little possessive . in the beginning of our relationship i was reluctant because of this reason so i broke with her initially. But later i thought all girls are like that so "what the hell" she is really beautiful , smart and caring and i feel a lot for her. "but women" yesterday i was with my friend and did not call her in time ,she became very upset. i can see that she does not like any slack from my side. The problem now is that i dont want to see her sad and will give her more attention that will make her more possessive. the cause of her possessiveness i think is a fundamental flaw in the psyche to depend extra ordinarily on their men , in my country you can not even imagine. she does not like talking to much of her friends. I could not tell her to do so because that will be changing her. What should i do so that she become more relaxed and less possessive? It has nothing to do with your country, mate. It happens everywhere in the world. I'd love to know how to solve it too. I tried sitting her down and talking about it, and she seemed very understanding, but of course it changed nothing and I had to break it off.
jamal Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 This is just a stage in a relationship where this woman needs reassurances that this relationship is real. Insecurities are human and usually a result of having been burned previously, and should not be a reason for dumping a woman you really like. Constantly tell her how much you like/love her and try to spend as much time as you can with her. Also call her often (with this one a daily dose might do the trick). Once she knows that you are for real and not into head games she will become more relaxed and even let you go on boys night outs. She just needs to know that she is your number one priority.
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