roxy3712 Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 i am working abroad on a ship and on my last 6 weeks of my contract i met this amazing italian guy,,,, now they all say things about the itais on the ships but i felt this one was different. we spent every moment together and he was pretty full on, saying he wanted to see me again and he was going to try and come back to the ship i was on bla bla bla. i have recently gone on my break at home and he has gone back to italy. i have had 2 fone calls from him, no reply to my emails but then he will txt out of the blue saying he misses me, or when i talk to him on the fone he tells me that 'when we will be together......' i dont know what to do about it, its long distance, but i have not felt this way about anyone in a really long time and i have had my heart broken way too many times whilst working on ships. i dont want this to be another balck line in my book of love, i want to try and get my point across to him about what i want, and try and make it work if he wants to! but the language barrier doesnt help either! WHAT SHOULD I DO????? please help!
TaraMaiden Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Send him this: Ascolta bello: Io vorrei tanto rivederti, ma ci sono talmente tante storie raccontate di Italiani che fanno finta di inammorarsi con le belle donne, solamente per un po di divertimento.Vorrei assicurarmi che sei sincero, onesto e serioso nelle tue intenzioni. Dimmi veramente - perche sai, sono un' adulta con una testa sulle spalle, non una stupidotta scema con gli occhiali tinti di rose - o mi vuoi veramente bene, e vuoi stabilire una relazione con me - o stai giocando e ti stai divertendo per conto tuo. percio, dimmi caro - o mi vuoi come fidanzata, o mi giochi come una screanzata. A che punto siamo? Rispondi per favore, perche mentre sono molto intesa, e preparata di seguirti fino alla fine del mondo - non ho veramente la voglia di sprecare la mia buona volonta sui guastatempi.... " Translation: "Listen dearest, I would love to see you again, but there are so many stories told about Italians pretending to fall in love with beautiful women, but only for a bit of entertainment. I'd like to really make sure you are sincere, honest and serious in your intentions. Tell me truthfully - because, you know I'm a mature woman with a head on her shoulders, not a silly little idiot wearing rose-tinted spectacles - or you really like me, and you want to have a relationship with me - or you're playing around for your own amusement. so tell me - or you want me as a girlfriend, or you're playing me for a fool. Where are we with this? Please respond, because while I am prepared to be completely serious and follow you to the ends of the earth, I really don't want to throw away my good name and nature on time-wasters." Hope this helps.
Author roxy3712 Posted June 24, 2010 Author Posted June 24, 2010 wow thanks for that!! i will get typing and hope for the best!!!! will let you know how things have gone! thanks once again
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