so_mo34 Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 ok so it finally ended with this guy i was casually seeing. he was just using me for sex, so i know it's the right thing that it's over, he just kind of stopped texting me and stuff so it ended on it's own. but anyways i can't help but miss him and think about him. i keep hoping he will text me even though i know it was wrong all along. i really want to get over him and move on but i can't help being depressed about it. i have to see him at work a few days a week too so that makes it harder. is it normal to feel like this? will it get easier for me to cope? i feel awful. i really want to get over him though. i just feel so worthless and unloved.
Zansatsu Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 The only thing I can say is that it gets better. The first month or so is usually a little rough. Keep yourself busy and find things you enjoy doing. Go out with friends, hang out with family, and most importantly, surround yourself with people who care about you. It will help you put the split in perspective by getting you away from yourself for a while. Part of moving on is catching yourself and breaking the cycle of depression. This means, if you find yourself dwelling during certain activities, switch activities. Do anything that gets you away from thinking about it for a while. It will take a little time, but you will be so much better in the long-run. Life is hard enough without someone trying to use us. I hope this helped. Feel better!
Pfiend101 Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Stay NC it is the only way to heal. Everything will be fine. This too shall pass
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