loveyu Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 i have been married for almost 6 years and have 3 kids and now we are having problems. i found out on thanksgiving that my wife has been neglecting to tell me about allot of issues she has had with my persanality quirks she started to do this in the beging because she diddnt want to hurt me {she told me this} but now she treats it as im just trying to hurt her with everything i do including bringing her flowers just to make her smile is an attack on thanksgiving she told me of these problems and wanted a divorce i wanted a chance to fix the problems i never knew about life has been hell i love her and i think that her holding all these problems in is the reason she feels so bad but when she tells me its all my fault and im wrong for wanting to try to fix them i really dont see how its my fault and to top it all off her family has been telling her how wrong i am and that she should take the kids they also everychance they get undermind my autrity with the kids but only when shes not around my wifes mom is very controling and manipulative my wife grow up being a ffreaid of her mother the one time since we got together that she did something intentional that would upset her mother well as soon as she realized it she diddnt look upset are mad she looked like she had a gun shuved in her face i dont want to hurt my wife i really do love her but i need to get my kids out of this envirnment i need advice i dont want to take the kids away from her either but i cant have this kind of behavir in front of my kids and i dont know what options i have
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