Alain Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 So today I got five phone calls, two emails, and two voicemails from my ex. I have ignored all of them. This is after weeks of no contact and me telling her not to call, message, or visit me. I admit I am curious as to what she wants, but I really would rather not go down that road again. It has been two months since our break up and I have been feeling a lot better. Having no contact with her has been a huge help in the recovery process. I know her new boy is going off to europe for a month sometime this summer, so I figured he must have left and now she is lonely. So that may explain why she is trying to contact me. Any thoughts on why she's doing this? Should I at least read her emails even though I don't plan on replying?
Heatemyheart89 Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 I wouldnt read them. If he new boy is away sounds like she may be using you if shes lonely. IGNORE;)
DenverBachelor Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Five calls with two voicemails and two e-mails all at the same time sounds more like some type of emergency occurred and less like she's lonely and trying to catch up with you (unless she has a history of trying to contact you while you were NC). Sounds too excessive to simply be that she is lonely. Women don't usually come back in such a fashion unless something traumatic happened and she needs help or needs to tell you something important. If she's lonely, she may shoot you an e-mail and then try calling you a day or so later, but she's not going to start a marketing blitz like she has in this situation.
Author Alain Posted June 17, 2010 Author Posted June 17, 2010 (edited) Five calls with two voicemails and two e-mails all at the same time sounds more like some type of emergency occurred and less like she's lonely and trying to catch up with you (unless she has a history of trying to contact you while you were NC). Sounds too excessive to simply be that she is lonely. Women don't usually come back in such a fashion unless something traumatic happened and she needs help or needs to tell you something important. If she's lonely, she may shoot you an e-mail and then try calling you a day or so later, but she's not going to start a marketing blitz like she has in this situation. Your comment kinda scared me, so I checked my email only to find out its not an emergency. She just wants to have lunch and catch up. I have told her I didn't want any contact with her for a really long time. In the emails she said she is just going to show up at my place if I keep ignoring her. She still has a key to my place since she has refused to give it back to me. Wtf! This girl needs to leave me alone. Edited June 17, 2010 by Alain
ComputerJock Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Change your locks imediately, and if in an apartment notify the apartment manager that he is not to let her into your apartment.
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