mlh5046 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Just looking for some other ideas if anyone has any to mix things up with my relationship. I'm always trying to do new stuff with her and trying to keep things off the cuff. I don't want her to get bored with repetitive dates and hang outs. Anyone have any cool ideas? What type of things would get positive reactions? She likes to have fun and would do probably anything I'd suggest. Also, any suggestions as to my general interactions with her? Like on the phone or in person? I don't want to seem needy at all but I want her to know I'm interested in being with her. Thats where I am having trouble. It seems I go to far either direction. Haven't had many long relationships and none with any girls worth keeping before. Any tips welcome. gracias.
ADF Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Life cannot be an endless succession of new thrills and experiences. It just can't. At some point, people need to decide who they like to spend time with, where they like to go, and what they like to do. And they have to learn to enjoy those things on a regular basis. They can't always be demanding something new. Life isn't like that.
Krytie TV Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Is this the same girlfriend that screwed around and had to go get the morning after pill? It sounds to me like you're on a slippery slope, about to become a total doormat. Just sayin...
Author mlh5046 Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 haha ya it is the same girl. I have two views of her, and i ditched that one for now. it is too much stress to worry about that and she said it was just an std test. she said she wanted to get one for a while and was worried about me having one. as much I was suspicious I had to give her the benefit of the doubt. I am not going to end the relationship because she wanted to be tested. if anything else odd comes up again i will be sure to break it off.
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