Coward....

[lostsoulmate]

So, been in a wonderful LDF since November 2009.

Everything has been fabulous. We see each other every two weeks, until this last absence.

It had been 6 weeks, and I get a text message saying we are moving in different directions in our lives and he wants me and my daughter to move along. We don't need his crap. He doesn't want to f*#* it up any more.

 

His is 35 with a teenage daughter, I am 31 with a young daughter.

 

Aren't we a little old for a f*#*ing text messages?

At this point, especially since we had LDR and talked about everything...

 

I responded to his text with this...

 

"OK. I deserved more than a f*#*ing test message. Coward."

 

Been NC for 7 days. I actually feel relieved. Weird. Just had to get it off my chest.

 

Thank you!!

[lostsoulmate]

60 days into NC I had some of the best news of my life. I was awarded custody of my young daughter who I hadn't seen in 14 months.

I sent a mass text message, in my haste it went to "the coward"... Darn!!

 

Now he texted back and wants to chat, if I want to.

 

I am not sure how I should handle this situation. I do miss his friendship, the parts were we would talk about music, books, movies, etc.

 

I think I will just not write back. ????

[edgeofdarkness]

i think your right, dont text back, he didnt have the courage or courtesy to speak with u direct what the hell does he expect, oh yeah sure, im free, ive been hanging around just for u to f8ck me over yet again.....

[lala82]

I think you should give to him the opportunity to speak with you. It is the only way that you can know why he has being funny with you.

 

You should speak with him and be honest about it. Explain to him that you did not like the text that he sent you. However, when you speak with him try to do not create an argument. It will be make things worst between both of you.

 

Try to chill out a little bit and wait what he says.