somedude81 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Lets say a girl is at the mall and a guy approaches her and starts talking to her, and somehow after 5-10 minutes of conversation he gets her number. Meanwhile back in college there's a guy whose been sitting next to her for a few class meetings. He starts talking to her. They end up having brief conversations getting to know each other after a couple of meetings. A week later, he gets her number. Guy 1 she's known for 10 minutes Guy 2 she's known for a couple of weeks So which guy would she be more interested in? If she spent more time getting to know the second guy, would her interest go up or down?
Crazy Magnet Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 I don't think length of time has anything to do with it. It depends on her perception of compatibility.
bac Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Lets say a girl is at the mall and a guy approaches her and starts talking to her, and somehow after 5-10 minutes of conversation he gets her number. Meanwhile back in college there's a guy whose been sitting next to her for a few class meetings. He starts talking to her. They end up having brief conversations getting to know each other after a couple of meetings. A week later, he gets her number. Guy 1 she's known for 10 minutes Guy 2 she's known for a couple of weeks So which guy would she be more interested in? If she spent more time getting to know the second guy, would her interest go up or down? Guy 1 has much less chance with a regular girl. Perhaps girls can be picked up at malls but IMO it is too hard unless you can meet a rare girl who does picking up everywhere and everytime. Girls go to malls for shopping and they are focused on shopping. Girls at class feel chemistry for you right away when they see you for the first time. But, they will not show it too much and will not take any initiative. They are waiting for a male to choose them. So, if you talk with them in class, you show them that you are interested and it is the right thing to do. Her interest should go up if she had the chemistry from the begining and if the things that you say to her is appropriate for the situation.
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