Cantcope Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 My ex contacted me over the weekend. See my post "Scared of Hoping" in Second Chances. I'm back to being completely anxiety filled and annoyed. I feel like I need reassurance from him right now, but we haven't even really started discussing a second chance. We spent time together, had an amazing time, but we're both nervous about things. I, as usual, am ready to jump right back in with both feet. He is concerned about falling back into bad patterns. I don't want to pressure him into discussing the relationship right now. I just figured that it would be better discussed after spending some more time with eachother and regaining some level of comfort. I am terrible at overanalyzing things. I'm thinking too much. I want to just sit back, relax and let the chips fall where they will, but I have a tornado of thoughts and questions. I know that one wrong move right now can kill everything. How can I just calm down and slowly see where things lead? Or do I just go back to NC knowing that it will surely kill any chances that we have? Confused and conflicted.....
northstar1 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 You haven't fixed anything that broke the relationship before. You're just FWB's right now. He dumped you right? It's his lead to tell you what he wants and make all the gestures to get things back on track. The fact he isn't tells me he isn't sure. Go back to NC and see what his motives truly are.
Heatemyheart89 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 whatever you do dont push him.what will be will be. But you need to live your life. Dont let him muck you will about
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