ecto-1 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 (edited) Hello, I had been reading through these forums and saw a lot of informative stuff. Very interesting. At any rate, I was wondering something here. For one, I was out with a group of friends, and some were couples....one woman was saying to me, "You know how I showed my b/f I was interested? We were out and about one time and a took him to the side (in an area away from the public) and flashed my boobs" Apparently, he got the hint she was interested, and they'd been dating for about couple years ever since. Personally, some would think that's the kind of woman to avoid, because she's probably been around the block...and would probably be good for a fling if you desire to. I had met a woman online, and we had been on 2 dates already. She says she's completely new to online dating or even interacting with other people online.....even took a good year off after breaking off her long term rel. with her ex. When we had FIRST met online, we were mostly emailing back and forth then started chatting via IM. Then the topic of sexuality came up, and we started started talking about sexuality and how she's a very sexual person, with a great sexual appetite. She mentioned how she has photos of herself in certain attire...and I asked she send me one.....(I was kind of joking, lol...but...she sent them anyhow) She sent me photos of her in naughty lingerie (no nudity) and an outfit with short shorts and heals. I was thinking (Okay, she's probably sent this to a lot of guys online), and I even asked her, kind of teasin', "Hey, I bet every guy on the net you've talked to has these photos, right?" And she says, "No, only my ex (which is the guy who initially took the photos of her posing) and just me" I was thinking "oh okay, interesting" I just couldn't fathom her being that forward/open with me before we even met. lol We did meet in person, and she didn't misrepresent her photos....so that was out of the way. I met her, great personality, great conversation, and great sense of humor....had a nice time, a very civilized and lady-like (and the conversation when we met to eat wasn't ALL sexual, we talked about other things as well. lol) She just happens to be a very sexual person. But a complete civilized lady in public. Then I was thinking, "Wait a min., maybe she's only doing what she's doing, being as open with me about her sexuality, because she is attracted and has an interest in me?" Otherwise she probably wouldn't have said anything? I don't know, but that's what I'm thinking here. Part of me think this is too good to be true. LOL Any feedback? Any ladies here that, upon being attracted to a guy, tried to do things "sexy" to show your interest? Edited June 16, 2010 by ecto-1
Viking Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 I'm not sure what to say about your situation. My GF lifts up her shirt in front of me. She did it the day she left for 2.5 weeks (just a bra underneath) and pulled my face into them, but sometimes it is without a bra on.
Philetus Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 From the threat title.... "showing their interested" what?
bac Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 It is very desperate and unusual to me, unless she is into a short-term casual sex with multiple partners or an immature girl with little common sense. If she does it to you, she could do it to anyone, unless no one else wants to deal with her. But, of course, I do not know anything about her and there are always exceptions from general dating situations. There may be some circumstanses or reasons that made her behave in the unusual way. You never know a person before you try.
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