Bogo123 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Say you've already gone on a date with a guy and you like him. What signs do you give him to make him ask you out again? From my experience with girls that are interested, they'll either respond to text messages right away, or sometimes initiate a text convo or call me. Are these blatant hints that she wants to be asked out again? I guess Im looking for something more certain because these can also mean that she's just bored.
USMCHokie Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Are these blatant hints that she wants to be asked out again? Yes. Women who aren't interested won't initiate conversations and generally won't respond to texts/calls.
bac Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 you are a male, so all the initiative is on you. if you want a girl to go out with you again, you ask her out. there are no hints because she is waiting for you to take an initiative.
Crazy Magnet Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 I never respond or initiate out of boredom, I do it out of interest. If you are getting these signals man up and ask her out again already!
USMCHokie Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 And even if you don't get these signals, you should call her and ask her out anyway. Don't live your life looking for "signals" to act. Confident men create their own destiny. <---yea, that was cheesy...
Author Bogo123 Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 Ok I guess that's as obvious as it gets. Thanks guys.
Confusedalways Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Eh, I usually text most every guy I went out with to thank him, regardless of my interest level-- it's just polite.
Author Bogo123 Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 Eh, I usually text most every guy I went out with to thank him, regardless of my interest level-- it's just polite. That's different right after a date. But do you continue responding to his texts and/or initiate conversations when youre not interested?
Butterflying Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Lately I find that most guys don't "get" hints. It's better to say exactly what you want. This way, there is no misunderstanding.
USMCHokie Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Lately I find that most guys don't "get" hints. It's better to say exactly what you want. This way, there is no misunderstanding. Guys the world over would be greatly appreciative of this.
Adunaphel Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 Say you've already gone on a date with a guy and you like him. What signs do you give him to make him ask you out again? From my experience with girls that are interested, they'll either respond to text messages right away, or sometimes initiate a text convo or call me. Are these blatant hints that she wants to be asked out again? I guess Im looking for something more certain because these can also mean that she's just bored. You can safely assume she'd like to go out with you again. So go ahead and ask her out. Anyway... whenever you have had a first date, and would like a second one...asking her out again is just fine. If you enjoyed the first date and you did not get any blatant sign she does not want to see you again (she introduces you to her new boyfriend, she ignores your texts/calls, she tells you she is not interested, she moves to another country overnight) why shouldn't you just ask?
Krytie TV Posted June 18, 2010 Posted June 18, 2010 You ask them out. The "does she like me dance" is too exhausting and takes too much energy.
reservoirdog1 Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Lately I find that most guys don't "get" hints. It's better to say exactly what you want. This way, there is no misunderstanding. Damn, I LOVE it when the woman does that. A few weeks ago I went on two dates with a woman. I had a lot of trouble telling if she was simply shy and reserved, or not interested. When I would suggest seeing each other again, she'd respond positively, but nothing further coming her way. After the second date, I was left trying to figure out if she wanted to get together again, or was just being polite and agreeing when I suggested we do it again. By contrast, I went on a first date on Saturday with a woman I met online. We were heading from one place to another in my car, and she said that she was away camping next weekend and had her kids the following weekend, so she wasn't sure how soon we could see each other again. I took this as encouraging in that we were in mid-date and she was already thinking that, but then I started second-guessing and wondering if she was pre-emptively communicating that she wasn't interested. However, the date lasted till 3 AM because neither of us wanted it to end. Parted ways at her car, quick kiss, end of the evening. Being me, I was overanalyzing it the next morning, when I suddenly got a text message from her, thanking me for the "amazing" time the night before. I responded in agreement, and then she wrote back asking if I was busy on Saturday because her plans for next weekend had changed. I tell you, that was a breath of fresh air compared to the other situation.
Diezel Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Why are you waiting for signs??? Really? Just ASK and if she says NO or if she doesn't call back or ever respond, there you have your answer. I never LOOK for signs. If I like the woman, I'll ask again. If I get rejected for the second date: OH WELL. There are many more women out there. So much time is wasted on trying to "read signs" that sometimes we don't catch the most obvious one: Just asking again.
cdubs32 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Say you've already gone on a date with a guy and you like him. What signs do you give him to make him ask you out again? From my experience with girls that are interested, they'll either respond to text messages right away, or sometimes initiate a text convo or call me. Are these blatant hints that she wants to be asked out again? I guess Im looking for something more certain because these can also mean that she's just bored. This kind of thinking is what got me into a lot of trouble. I'm an analyzer, so I used to break down every date afterwards to determine if she was interested or not. I'd call again after a day or two to go out, I've even texted right after the date. This is the best advice you will ever get, here's what I've learned: NONE OF IT MATTERS Every girl is different so they react differently to guys when they like/don't like them. Also, a lot of women don't even have a flipping clue as to how they feel about you, so how can you read into their actions/words about how they feel about you when they don't even know? This used to stress me out a lot, and it's actually this aspect that has made me quit dating (at least for a while....a LONG while). Best to just not think about it, not get too interested too fast. Until she bring up the relationship discussion with you and locks you in as your boyfriend, ASSUME NOTHING.
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