aerogurl87 Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 This isn't meant to be a downer thread, but something to remind you of what you have to look forward to with your SO. So here goes. For me when my boyfriend and I are apart I miss (in no particular order): Staring into his eyes (he has these gorgeous grayish blue eyes that are the most beautiful set of eyes I've ever had the pleasure of looking in)Play wrestling around his house Relaxing when he gets home from work on the couch and cuddling. His yummy kisses and holding hands (his hand is a little bit bigger than mine which makes it feel like God perfectly crafted our hands to fit together)Playing pranks on each other, heheLong walks around his small townFalling asleep in his arms and having him bring me socks when I say my feet are getting coldCooking him dinner and then seeing his face light up when he first bites into whatever I've made What about everyone else?
impz Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 This isn't meant to be a downer thread, but something to remind you of what you have to look forward to with your SO. So here goes. For me when my boyfriend and I are apart I miss (in no particular order): Staring into his eyes (he has these gorgeous grayish blue eyes that are the most beautiful set of eyes I've ever had the pleasure of looking in)Play wrestling around his house Relaxing when he gets home from work on the couch and cuddling. His yummy kisses and holding hands (his hand is a little bit bigger than mine which makes it feel like God perfectly crafted our hands to fit together)Playing pranks on each other, heheLong walks around his small townFalling asleep in his arms and having him bring me socks when I say my feet are getting coldCooking him dinner and then seeing his face light up when he first bites into whatever I've made What about everyone else? awww. One thing I miss is to throw her off the bed when it is morning time (I'm a morning person, and she's ermm not?). I'm mean that way :lmao:
Citizen Erased Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 I miss his eyes. They don't translate over webcam or really in pictures but he has amazing green eyes. How tight he holds me in his sleep. He being annoying and tickling me which makes me laugh. He makes me laugh a lot. His tattoos. grrowl. Seeing him smile when he sees me and then he has to reach down and kiss me which is really cute. Damn my shortness.
Author aerogurl87 Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 awww. One thing I miss is to throw her off the bed when it is morning time (I'm a morning person, and she's ermm not?). I'm mean that way :lmao: Haha, that's kinda funny. Neither me or my boyfriend is a morning person, so usually we both just wake up really early together, so we'll have time to fall back asleep before we actually have to get up. Yeah, we're weird like that, lol. I miss his eyes. They don't translate over webcam or really in pictures but he has amazing green eyes. How tight he holds me in his sleep. He being annoying and tickling me which makes me laugh. He makes me laugh a lot. His tattoos. grrowl. Seeing him smile when he sees me and then he has to reach down and kiss me which is really cute. Damn my shortness. I agree, there's so much webcams and pictures leave out. I thought my boyfriend's eyes were pretty when I first saw a picture of them online, but in person they are gorgeous. I could, and have, stare at them all day. I also know what you mean about being shorter than your SO. My SO is 6'1 and I'm almost 5'6 so he likes to call me little legs and pick at me about my shortness while he teases me by playfully withholding kisses from me sometimes. ooohhh, so many things!!! His kisses This silly little wave thing he does with his arms Baking with him (he likes snickerdoodle cookies) Watching "Attenborough" with him (we like nature shows, but since it is always narrated by David Attenborough we just refer to them by his last name) Taking baths/showers with him The look on his face when I wear something he likes and so much more Taking baths and showers with my SO, ah something I forgot that you just reminded me of. I love doing that with my SO as well and I'm glad people are contributing to this thread, it's adding to my super gushy, romantic mood for the night. So keep the comments coming.
White Dove Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 All the above I miss having his arms around me. All visit were always short so we took advantage of what we had then by cuddling and talking a lot. Oh boy, can that man talk! I love the way he walks! I miss looking at that walk. Oh showers -- I miss taking showers with him. He's so proper at the dinner table -- I love how he eats and chews. Adorable. He's 6'4 and I can relate with you girls on the bending over to kiss! I love it. I think it's cute I miss his eyes too -- gorgeous. I miss feeling safe around him. I miss that the most and I can't wait to be with him!
Spiritofnow Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 (edited) This is a great thread That moment just as you are waking in the morning and realising we are in bed together - that always give me such a great feeling. A bit like the feeling you would have felt when you were a kid waking up on Christmas morning. Spooning on the couch whilst watching crap tv. Cuddling. Seeing that naughty glint in his eyes... Laughing a lot together - he has the cheekiest laugh and smile. Holding hands. Cooking for us. Stroking my head and running his fingers through my hair. His smell. Spontaneity. Not having to talk or communicate through virtual means, but being able to watch him, and just being present with him. Having some booooooze together and getting silly. I could go on... Edited June 16, 2010 by Spiritofnow
Els Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Being able to DO something together other than play computer games and chat! Taking walks together, sharing a meal, watching TV while snuggling, shopping, movies, SEX! Smell. Touch. Taste.
Pyro Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Everything! The way she kisses, the way she hugs, the fact she loves to cuddle, tickling her until I get bored of it:p, the night time activities;). The list is endless. For those non LDR people out there: don't take your relationship for granted. You are lucky that you get to see your SO on a daily basis, unlike some of us who have to wait months in between. For me it's worth the wait.
Els Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 Oh, I forgot to add, being able to feel his affection through his arms, his hands, when he doesn't feel like talking or have anything left to say... as opposed to having a bleak wall of silence!
carvidep Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 (edited) Oh, I forgot to add, being able to feel his affection through his arms, his hands, when he doesn't feel like talking or have anything left to say... as opposed to having a bleak wall of silence! yes!! I love knowing what's on his mind by just looking at him, or by how he touches me! -A also love his yummy chocolate brown Spanish eyes (he has prettier eyelashes than me! so not fair!) -his eyebrows (is that weird?) -goosing him, and getting goosed by him -how excited he gets when ever I make Ramen noodles for him haha! -I'm the morning person, but I don't push him out of bed hahahaha. I like to watch him sleep and gently run my fingers through his hair or kiss his forehead, trying not to wake him up, but secretly hoping to because I adore that sleepy smile he gets when he sees me there. -he takes care of me when I'm sick and won't leave my side. -travelling, exploring, taking walks, going to the Chinese markets for cheap grub, hanging out with his friends, going to clubs, having drinks, etc... -happy special bed time! ;);) OH! and we're roughly the same height. he's slightly taller than me (heels bother my feet, so it's not an issue for me!), so I can kamikaze-kiss him any time I want! Great thread OP!!! Edited June 16, 2010 by carvidep
Author aerogurl87 Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 Oh, I forgot to add, being able to feel his affection through his arms, his hands, when he doesn't feel like talking or have anything left to say... as opposed to having a bleak wall of silence! I know what you mean. My SO and I will just be sitting there watching TV or something, or he'll be across the room and it's this look in his eyes and the way he touches my arm or something that just makes me feel so loved. Like one day when we were watching a movie with his little sister on the couch and she was sitting in the middle of us, he just turned to look at me out of the blue and mouthed the words "I love you" and I felt like I could've just melted right there.
impz Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Haha, that's kinda funny. Neither me or my boyfriend is a morning person, so usually we both just wake up really early together, so we'll have time to fall back asleep before we actually have to get up. Yeah, we're weird like that, lol. Oh, usually, it is a ritual of close to 30-45 minutes for us, because I will be trying to drag her off the bed continuously. I will even pull her off the bed by dragging her legs (I know i shouldn't do that ). Since she is no morning person, she will be attracted back to the bed like a magnet. Then, the whole process of dragging her to her feet begins until she finally wakes up or I give up. 50-50 chance of each scenario happening. It's funny because there was one incident in which I was so tired spending so much energy trying to drag her up that I dozed off after she actually woke up. Made her so pissed Oh, and talking to each other before we sleep. I love that ^^
JacquesA.LeFrancais Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 What I miss the most, is completely odd. My S/O is a smoker. I've never been, think people who do usually smell bad. And they are usually gross to be around. Let me tell you. There is not a day that we are apart that I don't miss that smell of the feel of her lips with that taste in her mouth. I know...wrong right? To each his own I guess...with all the things I miss, that you guys listed above...this one is unique to her. (Although when we get married my project is to help her quit lol)
madjac74 Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 1. Her kisses. I swear her lips were made to fit mine perfectly 2. Her freckles 3. The way she chews on one side of her lower lip 4. The way one strand of red hair always seems to hang down her face and the way she whips her pony tail around 5. Being in a leg lock and talking til dawn 6. Watching her sleep 7. Physical abuse when I make a smart ass comment 8. Actually SEEING her laugh 9. That amazing feeling you get being the guy with the girl who turns all the guy's heads 10. That tingling feeling I get when Im with her 11. And the obvious... sex
tippie Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 What I miss the most is..... 1. Before bed we would talk about our day. NO TV NO CELLPHONES just us two together unwinding. We call it QT time. 2. Him holding my iphone until he broke it lol. Thank god for warranty. 3. Our showers togethers. 4. Just being in his arms in general. Kissing him. His smell.. gosh the tears are ready...
Author aerogurl87 Posted June 21, 2010 Author Posted June 21, 2010 Aww these are so sweet. I have something else to add to my list though. I miss how my boyfriend and I do this thing, where we drink a drink and then lean in for a kiss, and pour the drink in the other person's mouth. I know to some people it sounds gross, but I love when he does that and kisses me afterwards.
XKatieX Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 (edited) His ability to make me laugh so much- And not many people can make me laugh, but absolutely no one can make me laugh as much as he does. His smell- He doesn't even have to wear cologne, he just naturally smells good His touch- Literally sends shivers down my spine His arms- I always feel safe and warm in them Our chemistry- I can always feel the immense heat between us in person, emotionally and physically Oh yeah and I miss his, well you ladies know :x Edited June 21, 2010 by XKatieX
marsle85 Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 I don't even HAVE a LDR and this thread makes me happy.
electricity Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 The warmth of his chest and arms when he sits down behind me and pulls me to him, so that my back is pressed against his chest and his arms are wrapped around me. The way he shivers and grabs me when I climb on top of him and kiss certain sensitive spots on his neck. The weight of his body on top of me when making out. The way he casually but possessively puts an arm around my waist when we're out in public, and presses a kiss against my temple when no one's looking. How he makes me feel about myself, with just a look, question, or other equally mundane action.
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