prayingshecomesback Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 (edited) I am almost to the 1 year mark of the breakup. She left me after 3 years for another man. We were almost engaged. Wonder how that is working out for her? She just turned 30 so she better hope it is good, cause she threw away a perfect relationship to find out if the grass is greener!!! If she could see me now, she would be shocked. I have changed my whole life. I have a rocking new job, hundred more friends than before, strong spiritual growth with God, dating plenty of girls, in better shape.... my life has really come together. In losing her I found myself! I wont lie... I still miss her because I havent met the right girl. BUT when I see an attractive girl or one that I am interested in...I lose all feelings for the ex. So I KNOW I am turning the corner and will meet the girl that is right for me. I also found out how strong I really am. She was probably thinking I would be begging and trying to call her months after the relationship for her to give me another try. Her ego must have taken a blow cause I haven't! I am strong! Keep the faith! Edited June 16, 2010 by prayingshecomesback
Author prayingshecomesback Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 Good idea. How bout "pleasedontcomebackandruinmylifeagain"
whichwayisup Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 The longer you are in NC mode, the easier it'll be to wipe out the deeper feelings you once had. It kind of becomes out of sight/out of mind = No new hurts and old hurts are felt less and less. TIME is on your side! Enjoy dating and getting to know new women. Just know when you're least expecting it, one good gal will come into your life!
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