Jersey Shortie Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 Jesus you women overanalyze things...Say thank you and move the f on with life.. No we don't PJKino. We just don't respond like you would. That doesn't mean we "overanaylze". Don't make women feel bad for their own personal thought processes. That's crappy. Even if the guy does have *gasp* sleeping with you in mind somewhere in his head.. that still must mean hes attracted to you...Men dont approach women we find ugly and tell them their pretty to sleep with them.. I know u ladies want us to think your not only pretty but the most smart funny interesting person in the world just by looking at you but like all humans the physical is the first thing we see.. So what if it's the first thing men see? It's nice to get compliments but just because a man gives you one, doesn't mean you have to be impressed with him because he saw the "visual" of you and liked and responded. That's not enough for most women.
homersheineken Posted June 17, 2010 Posted June 17, 2010 We're not here to make this easy for you! JS, good answer. It all boils down to a comfort thing, sure, it's nice that a guy notices you, but when you don't look your best, it's easy to wonder what the motive is. I have a tendency to think they are taking the pi$$ out of me. Just the way I am. So, when you look your best, what's a guy's motive?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Over the years, I have heard this from many many women. Women Ive dated, women I work with, friends, etc. They will say how they just ran to the store, and had sweats on, hair thrown up in a clip or ballcap, no makeup. And while there, they say a guy hit on them, or was checking them out. So instead of feeling positive about it, she is offended, some have even been quite peeved that a guy would even look at her without being all gussied up. Does this mean that those kind of women think of themselves as ugly or unattractive when they dont have their "mask" on ? Please dont just post replies about how you arent like that, I want to know WHY women cant take a compliment unless they are all done up. I guarantee if you are not that type of woman you know 1 or more that are. . Shouldn't there be an example of a compliment somewhere in such a post? A guy staring at your ass as you bend over to reach the lowest shelf at the grocery store does not qualify as such. Nor does a guy who passes you in the parking lot and says: "hey baby, wanna f*ck?" as you're pushing your cart full of grocery bags.
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