donutclub Posted January 30, 2004 Posted January 30, 2004 Broke up with ex 3 days before NYE because she doesn't want to live in the city we are living in for the rest of her life. She was the one who pulled out. She said before hanging up that she'd call me in a couple of weeks and I told her no please don't call me when you get lonely to hang out or entertain you. Then she writes me and email basically acting all confident and **** and her last line was I know I said I'd call you but I think you should call me when you feel ready. Well it was last nite, a month later, I got a call... She said " Hey I was cleaning out my drawer and found your passport tonite, and I think with should probably talk sometime and maintain some kind of friendship. Anyways I'll be up for awhile doing laundry so give me a call or when you get a chance." There is 2 things I think I can do here: Ignore her... which will prob make her think I'm pissed and make her feel like she won. Or call her and tell her I was looking for that passport and ask her if she could mail it to me next week or sometime and that we'll talk later cus I'm busy now... Keep the call under 5 minutes Or any other suggestions? She's always into games and she always tried to control me. We planned to go on an out of town trip this weekend back in Nov. but she is going with her friend now. Who knows what she wants... we were good friends before we were together for ayear and she was the one who always pursued me when I blew her off numerous times. I miss her but I want to show her that I dont have time for her stupid games and she isnt going to walk all over me. Since we've broke up I've been to the gym everyday and my business has skyrocketed but I feel like I shouldnt let her know any of this... the club
sweetali Posted January 31, 2004 Posted January 31, 2004 Actually, I think you should let her know about the gym and your business skyrocketing. It would show her that you've moved on with your life and are fine without her. I completely agree with you needing to show her that she can't walk all over you and stuff so I would do the later, call her back, tell her you were looking for that passport and that you'd like it back, and keep the call under 5 min. Have her drop it off at your house when your not home or with a friend or something like you are too busy to even meet with her. I promise you, that will get her freaking out, and she will be wanting you back. Then the ball will be in your court and you can make the decision.
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