123BeachFan Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 I don't think it's anyone's business how many people you've "been with" in the past, whether the "being" part was making out or having sex. She doesn't owe it to you to account for her past relationships, and you shouldn't press her to reveal every minute detail in order to trust her now. All that matters is the time from which you two became exclusive, on. Of course, if she's hooking up with a basketball player this Friday, that's different. But let it go, or you two will have a huge fight on your hands for something that isn't of real consequence.
Author angelo82 Posted June 21, 2010 Author Posted June 21, 2010 I don't think it's anyone's business how many people you've "been with" in the past, whether the "being" part was making out or having sex. She doesn't owe it to you to account for her past relationships, and you shouldn't press her to reveal every minute detail in order to trust her now. All that matters is the time from which you two became exclusive, on. Of course, if she's hooking up with a basketball player this Friday, that's different. But let it go, or you two will have a huge fight on your hands for something that isn't of real consequence. Totally agree. I already told her I don't care what she did in the past. What I don't like are pointless lies.
123BeachFan Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Totally agree. I already told her I don't care what she did in the past. What I don't like are pointless lies. Then stop pressing her to disclose it, or you'll get more lies. IMO.
Hop_prophet Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 "Being with" means having sex in my book. But seriously this is a harmless white lie and she is doing it to spare your feelings. Would you rather know all the details? It really seems like you are the one with the problem here as you are invading her privacy and resorting to snooping on her when you have no reason to.
SarahRose Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Good grief OP. Go back and read this entire thread and look how childish and ridiculous it is. People are going to lie when they are backed into a corner. Just drop it. It seems that young people are so hung up on what someone did in their past. Who cares? Nothing anyone can do to change it. Your relationship must be pretty boring if this is all you have to dwell on.
Pfiend101 Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 What is the ethnicity of your GF and what is the ethnicity of the 6'8" guy
phineas Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Good grief OP. Go back and read this entire thread and look how childish and ridiculous it is. People are going to lie when they are backed into a corner. Just drop it. It seems that young people are so hung up on what someone did in their past. Who cares? Nothing anyone can do to change it. Your relationship must be pretty boring if this is all you have to dwell on. I agree. But, if she is still hanging out with an ex & telling her current boyfriend he is just a friend & she never got with him then it's a problem. His GF seems to have a "i'm so hot & everyone wants me" attitude. She can't be too off base if the OP is putting up with her crap.
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