Ex & I Started Talking Again But Ever Since We Danced He Has Gone Cold.

[ConflictedGirl]

I was in a relationship that ended a few months ago. After seein my ex for the first time maybe 2+ weeks ago he started inboxing me on facebook. We have been speaking almost everday since then , I told him if i ever saw him in person i would ignore him , and thats exactly what i did , we ended up sitting in the same barber shop for 2+ hours i didnt even look at him. I honestly didnt feel comfortable talking to him in person yet

 

the next day there was a party and i told him i'd speak to him that night and that i'd "save a dance" for him , i tried to stay clear of him because i knew he was involved with some other girls (nothing serious , atleast thats what i thought/think) so we ended up dancing that night and everything felt like we were back together , i had to catch myself when he said he would be right back and i noticed he went by the other girl....i wasnt hurt i found it funny that he thought he was a "player" because he was almost trying to hide it like he was running between us.

 

Reality hit me that he is the same guy i broke up with , nothing has changed....but i still miss him and want him back but i dont even know how to begin , the next day he sent me a smiley face n i said "what" he said nothing and we havent spoken since then...and that was sunday. I feel that maybe he is done talking to me because everyone saw us ... or maybe because i answered harshly...i know its only been 2 days but thats the longest since we started talking and i know he has been online , i want to address us getting back together without sounding desperate..should i wait till he says something , or should i just tell him what im feeling?...getting him to cut off those other girl would only work if he is the one begging me back....but im starting to think that wont happen.

 

i think he may have feelings left but he is very prideful , and because i didnt trust him i kept saying , how do i know this isnt just some bet that you can get me back...and he would joke around and say it is...and while we danced he said , you know this is part of the bet....but there is truth to every joke right?....i dont know if he is saying it to cover up that he may want me back or if its true but that a reason why i dont want to initiate any conversation ...

 

so what should i do?