mike1988 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 I was thinking about my attraction (lately luck) with older woman (30+ years old compared to my 21 years old) and I've got to thinking about something interesting. Growing up in the early-mid 1990s, I found myself often watching TV and movies from the 1980s...and even as a kid I was always intrigued by the "big hair" and "makeup" looks of the 80s. By the time I was a young teen, I'd often watch those 80s horror movies and notice the "High School girls" in the showers (while a masked guy with a chainsaw would usually wait for them) and noticed how tall, busty and gorgeous they were. This gave me a predisposition for those types of woman...problem is...the women don't seem to have that mature presence or look until they're 30 years old or so. I later found out that it was often 30 year old women ACTING the part of a "teenage high school" girl in those 80s/early 90s films... Could that be one reason why to this day I've always been attracted to older or more mature acting women?
Ronni_W Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Could that be one reason why to this day I've always been attracted to older or more mature acting women? You could also consider whether mature females and the 80s "big hair and make-up" bring to mind your childhood caregivers, and how, if in any way, that plays into your current-day preferences. That is, there could be subconscious beliefs about those types of women being better able to give you praise, attention, love, whatever. Or, it could be that you just like the way it looks. Point is, you gotta go into your own head to figure out what is your own truth about it.
Author mike1988 Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 You could also consider whether mature females and the 80s "big hair and make-up" bring to mind your childhood caregivers, and how, if in any way, that plays into your current-day preferences. That is, there could be subconscious beliefs about those types of women being better able to give you praise, attention, love, whatever. Or, it could be that you just like the way it looks. Point is, you gotta go into your own head to figure out what is your own truth about it. True that.
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