Chitowngirl Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 I went on a date yesterday. It lasted about 7 hours, and I was ready to go home at 9pm, but the guy asked if I could go home, change and we'd go back out! He also said he'd like me to sleepover. I didn't really want to do either, but I really liked him so I said ok. So on the ride to my place which is about 15 min from his, he is in a happy mood, dancing to music, acting normal. He drops me off and says he'll pick me up in an hour. About 20 min later he texts me saying he's tired and wants to cancel. That day he told me he woke up at noon, and it was only about 9:30pm when he said he was too tired. Does this seem shady to you? How would you react?
pantherj Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 This guy was planning to have sex with you, but he got another offer from a different girl. He decided to sleep with her, and keep you in his que for another time.
jakinbandw Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Or quite possibly he was enjoying himself because he was with you and you were distracting him from how tired he was. He was so focused on you that he didn't notice it. Then after you were gone and he had a chance to unwind his tiredness caught up with him and he realized that he couldn't stay as awake as he would like. So he let you know that he didn't think he could handle it without thinking how it would make you feel. Most people are a little thoughtless when they are tired. [edit] Waking up at noon means nothing. how many hours of sleep did he get that night. 5 hours does not give a good nights rest. Also oddly too much sleep can leave you feeling drained.
jamal Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 No warm blooded male would pass up an opportunity for sex just like that. Even if I were tired, the hormones would just take over and at least I would be able to pull off one round. Considering that the woman is sleeping over, I would have morning pussy once I have recuperated. This dude had something else going on or he is gay.
blueberries Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 i agree with panther and jamal. a guy wouldn't turn a woman down for a sleep over if he's into her. he would if he's gonnna get it from someone else.
Author Chitowngirl Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 a guy wouldn't turn a woman down for a sleep over if he's into her. he would if he's gonnna get it from someone else. MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. Ok glad I didnt over react.
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