foamy2001 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 So, a quick review... My wife and I have been married for about 2 years. She came home in Feb and said she couldn't do this anymore and moved to her mom's. Since that time, she has filed for divorce, which will be final next month and moved from southern Ohio to Michigan... She has no family in Michigan, but did have a girlfriend who lived there... her gf moved and my ex is supposedly living with her friend's family and working for her friend's dad. Before she left, she came to my house and had sex with me... which really threw me for a loop... So, now the date is coming up and I still can't stop thinking about her. I have cut off communication. She wanted to come say goodbye before she moved, but I refused. About two weeks ago, I was snooping on her facebook page (bad move, I know) and I found out there is some other guy in Michigan... she says there was nothing going on before she moved there, but I think that is bull... I know I shouldn't care... I should just move on. But I still love her. I have changed so much since she left. I am miserable all the time. I don't talk to friends. I rarely get out of the house. I did take a trip this weekend, but I did it by myself and it really only made things worse. I feel like I'm never going to get over this. I am 35 and feel like my life is over. Sorry, just kind of venting.
What_Next Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Foamy2001, hang in there. I'm 36 and in the middle of a likely divorce now. Despite still living under the same roof we are sleeping apart and having little contact. We had our first MC session tonight and it was a disaster. Anyway, first, drop the Facebook, close it and move on. It's a waste of time and scourge of society. Get that out of your system NOW! Pick yourself up by the bootstraps. Excercise, eat right, sleep properly. Get busy living! By the sounds of it she is gone and will not be back. As hard as that sounds you have to face that. You didn't say if there were any children involved and it appears there aren't and that is a good thing. Re-kindle and old hobby or passion. Get out there and explore. It's VERY hard but it does get easier.
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