mlh5046 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 So I have posted on here before regarding this relationship. It is odd for me because she has been chasing after me for a while and we just kind of made it into a serious official thing. But now i feel i tad insecure for a few reasons. 1. I have a feeling she may have been with a good amount of men before me. No clue as to the number. Anytime we go in that direction she always ends it and says it shouldn't matter to us whats happened in the past or who we'eve been with. Which I can respect, but it makes me curious. 2. There's the physical aspect. Now please bear with me because I know little about female anatomy besides the 4 now 5th girl i've been with. She becomes very loose during sex. If we foreplay before she is real real wet and loose for sex. Never been with a girl like that, she constantly mentions how she is sooo attracted to me and never got so wet for a guy before. (which I love btw), but she gets so loose sometimes. If we go right into sex she will be a little tight for the first 30 secs or so then gets real loose again. I am wondering if her looseness is from being with several partners? I honestly just want good solid opinions. I've never been with a girl who was that loose before, and I don;t want to judge her if its actually genetic and not from sleeping around before me. I don't want to catch anything you know Any input appreciated, gracias.
that girl Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Having a lot of sexual partners does not change the size of your vagina. It doesn't even make sense. Imagine two women. Woman #1 has had only one boyfriend. They were together 7 years and had sex pretty much once a day. Total times had sex 2,555. Woman #2 has been sexually active for 7 years too. First there was a boyfriend of one year who she had sex with a few times a week. After than she had five one night stands in a year before getting into a LDR that lasted three years. They didn't see each other much, maybe one weekend every two months. In the last two years she's had two relationships that lasted about three months. Total times had sex 250. See, it doesn't really make sense to assume a woman with more sexual partners (something you don't even know about this girl) would have a ruined vagina from too much sex. Vaginas are capable of pushing out a baby, normal sex isn't going to damage it. And it sounds like you are already judging her.
MisUnderstanding Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 However, if you put two and two together... She doesn't want to talk about her past encounters AND she is loose. Yep, there have been a few guys "there" before you. If she only had a small number of relationships, she wouldn't be so defensive to talk. And... "nobody ever made her so wet", I find it hard to believe that it's sincere.
Green Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Girls don't get loose from being with many guys... maybe she had a baby that you don't know about
txsilkysmoothe Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 (edited) I would go so far as to say "women don't get loose from having babies." I think a lot of women and men can back this up. Op, how do you know she is looser than the average woman? I think alot of lubrication can make a tight V feel loose. Are you average size? Maybe you're just not a good match. Edited June 15, 2010 by txsilkysmoothe
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