Author Bangle Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 You all right. I have just lost all interest in dating, relationships. I'll remain single for the long term.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 You all right. I have just lost all interest in dating, relationships. I'll remain single for the long term. Sure you will until the right one comes along I just hope by then your not to jaded and bitter to realize it..
Author Bangle Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 yeah and that's why I'm taking time away from the whole thing, before I get really bitter until then all women can go get f*cked.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 yeah and that's why I'm taking time away from the whole thing, before I get really bitter until then all women can go get f*cked. Even me? im female and ive taken time out to respond to your post? are all women evil in your eyes then?
Author Bangle Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 Even me? im female and ive taken time out to respond to your post? are all women evil in your eyes then? Every woman on the planet who isn't a relation. Women are not evil, they're just dishonest and enjoy being mindraiders. I'm getting out of the game until my anger goes away, I'll concentrate on what makes happy and that isn't women. I will drink lots of beer, eat lots of crisps and watch Germany win the World Cup.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 I'm going to have to agree with you, Bangle. Stop trying to find a girl to date; you're not ready man. That attitude of yours needs a tune up that only time and perhaps more experience can help you with.
suprisinginsight Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Today I was rejected for the 10th time since last summer and I am so upset that I am giving up women for good. No one should have to be rejected 10 times, it's so mean. F*ck women. Don't feel down Bangle, You can't score unless you shoot. On the bright side at least your getting phone numbers. Keep at it!
AD1980 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Im in the same boat women are not attracted to me at all. Im not bothered by it anymore because women for the most part are not worth the headache and hoops you have to jump through to get them..Consider yourself lucky
sally4sara Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 A girl offering you friendship is insulting? No wonder you're so upset by being rejected -they are not people to you. What right do they have for not choosing to screw you? The gene pool looks better and better with every guy holding this mentality packing it in and giving up.
AD1980 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 A girl offering you The gene pool looks better and better with every guy holding this mentality packing it in and giving up. Easy to say from a womens soapbox where she does no work and waits for the right guy to come along and woo her.. Dont speak on what Men should do when you ladies dont put yourselves in that positon to get rejected all the time and sometimes humilliated becauae some women cant be nice about rejection
sally4sara Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Easy to say from a womens soapbox where she does no work and waits for the right guy to come along and woo her.. Dont speak on what Men should do when you ladies dont put yourselves in that positon to get rejected all the time and sometimes humilliated becauae some women cant be nice about rejection I've asked out a good percentage of the people I've dated - my husband being one. I don't play the waiting game. You know what they say about assuming right? I just believe it is in the best interest of our species that anyone of any gender who cannot see the other gender as people with equal merit remove themselves from the mix. Date your own gender or join a life of celibacy if you cannot find merit in a gender beyond getting your sexual needs met. Perhaps there is a genetic marker for this quality like there is for others? If so, it needs to go extinct. It certainly should not a quality children should be impressed by.
AD1980 Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 I've asked out a good percentage of the people I've dated - my husband being one. I don't play the waiting game. You know what they say about assuming right? I just believe it is in the best interest of our species that anyone of any gender who cannot see the other gender as people with equal merit remove themselves from the mix. Date your own gender or join a life of celibacy if you cannot find merit in a gender beyond getting your sexual needs met. Perhaps there is a genetic marker for this quality like there is for others? If so, it needs to go extinct. It certainly should not a quality children should be impressed by. Well youre one of the few women who do approach...Still few women know what guys go through I think youre being extremely harsh on this guy..I dont think he means exactly what he says its just anger and frustration for not feeling wanted by the opposite sex..We all wanted to feel wanted and attractive to the opposite sex on some level and if it doesnt happen we get extremely frustrated and maybe say some things we dont totally mean in the way it came off.
sally4sara Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Well youre one of the few women who do approach...Still few women know what guys go through I think youre being extremely harsh on this guy..I dont think he means exactly what he says its just anger and frustration for not feeling wanted by the opposite sex..We all wanted to feel wanted and attractive to the opposite sex on some level and if it doesnt happen we get extremely frustrated and maybe say some things we dont totally mean in the way it came off. He did not say anything about them being rude in how they turned down his romantic interest. He said a woman offering her friendship is an insult. some even wanted to be friends, I'd rather die than have those people as my friends. How insulting? I deleted this girls number and will refuse to serve her when she nexts come in. Should he be given opportunity to raise a child and influence them with this attitude? I can't see the good in it. Imagine someone was sexually interested in his mother and when she turned them down, they refused to do their job the next time she went in their place of employment....
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Every woman on the planet who isn't a relation. Women are not evil, they're just dishonest and enjoy being mindraiders. I'm getting out of the game until my anger goes away, I'll concentrate on what makes happy and that isn't women. I will drink lots of beer, eat lots of crisps and watch Germany win the World Cup. If this lovely attitude is what's been lurking just barely under your surface, I imagine that the women of the world should be feeling fortunate that you are removing yourself from the dating and potential marriage pool. What exactly do you have to bring that is positive?
DadofTwoGirls Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 when I was younger my cousin was always getting laid and had lots of female friends, I asked how he did it and he said if I ask 10 girls if they want to **** and I get slapped 9 times it worked.
Serenitynow Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 The problem here, is that MOST guys are frustrated with jumping through the hoops. BUT most guys dont vent around women. SO, when a guy comes on here to vent, the women instead of offering constructive criticism, attack him and say "well no wonder women dont like you" Guess what ? We as guys don't have that same attitude when we are on the date with a girl. And don't say you can tell that a person has negativity lurking under the surface, because that's total BS. How many thousands of people are in total shock when someone breaks up with them ? WHY didn't that person feel that vibe beforehand ? So dont go using excuses like "girls can tell when you are negative" Furthermore, If a person DOESN'T get a little irritated and ALWAYS has a happy go lucky attitude, then sometimes that's not good by smothering them with a false positive attitude. Its frustration with the DATING GAME not hatred towards women. And yes you HAVE to play the game to get the date. Always exceptions to everything but for the most part if you dont follow the cliched dating game that is socially the norm in our culture, then you pretty much will remain single Women CAN NOT really comment or understand that, because MOST women have many many options for dating, all they really need to do is CHOOSE which guy they want to go out with, Guys rarely have women knocking at the door, so WE must initiate contact and deal with MULTIPLE rejections just to get 1 option for a date. Women for the most part just get to sit back and filter through all the proposals . .
doomage Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 lol I know that sounds bad but I know your problem, you wait too long to make your intentions known to the women your feeling, but you know why you are taking 10 rejections so personally? Well because your not putting yourself on the line enough, there should be more rejection than that, if your approaching women. You should get out there and start approaching women, and don't take rejection so hard because it will have nothing to do with you but your approach if you were to get rejected by a woman you don't even know. Try it out and this won't be such a big deal. Don't give up on girls. Learn to take responsibility for yourself because maybe you have something to do with being rejected, like waiting so long to make a damn move. If you do the same crap you're gonna get the same results.
Ninia Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 No. I have had enough, if I never fall or feel for another woman again it won't be too soon. Every woman I have gotten to known and grown to really like has rejected me, some even wanted to be friends, I'd rather die than have those people as my friends. How insulting? I deleted this girls number and will refuse to serve her when she nexts come in. My brother is in the German Army, he treats women like piece of meat and they all like him because he is a soldier. Don't give up yet maybe you are just approaching women who aren't intreseted in you lots of guys do it. When taking it to the next level make sure you and the girl are both in the same page before attempting to asking her out. Some girls are extremely sweet, and the guy might think that it's a sign that she's open and willing when in reality she's simply being nice. Take it real slow there's no rush get to know her before even asking her for a drink unless she's clearly giving you all the thumbs up.
homersheineken Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 No offense man, but 10 rejections in one year is nothing. Nothing! Dating is NOT easy. Just last fall I got rejected probably about 40 times, I got about 15-20 numbers, and out of those numbers i got 8 dates. 1 of them became my girlfriend for six months. 1 out of 60. Once you get that 1, you'll forget about all the others. You need to learn not to take rejections so personally yeah that's what I was thinking.... "Wow, only 10 rejections in a year? Man, this dude must be doing something right! A real stud, Cassanova!"
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