SincereOnlineGuy Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 As for the rest of that your talking about, i don't think has anything to do with it! lol I repeat: "Common sense has to kick-in..." (not anytime soon, unfortunately)
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted June 16, 2010 Author Posted June 16, 2010 (edited) I repeat: "Common sense has to kick-in..." (not anytime soon, unfortunately) Well that's why I posted this cause I did notice these issues. He did ask me out again and I am but I am aware of these things and if these things or ones like them happen again then that's it. I figure one date isn't enough time to rule someone out cause you never know. We talked last night and was back to our chats before we went out, he was responsive and if there was a delay it was just a small one (more normal msn pause). He also explained the night before when he disappeard, there was a program starting up in the background and when it started he couldn't get back to msn. When he closed it down I was already gone. I do plan to address my concerns with him, but didn't want to ambush him with them last night with our first real chat since Saturday and was enjoying the chat. Edited June 16, 2010 by sweetbutcheeky
bayouboi Posted June 16, 2010 Posted June 16, 2010 So I decided to give him one more shot. hahahahahahahaha and THIS ladies and gentlemen is why it's better to be a jerk/loser/badboy than a nice guy. It's better to leave ANY impression on a woman, even a negative one, than NO impression at all (i.e. bland, boring nice guy). I am not surprised at all that you gave him a 2nd chance. Thank you for being informative.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted June 17, 2010 Author Posted June 17, 2010 So even if you want to believe what he said (he smokes when he's bored) that means that instead of spending the last few minutes with you, he was bored so chose to smoke?? That would be insulting. You haven't even had an official first date with him yet. You already have "thoughts" and feelings about his attentiveness that you want to explain to him? You'll get no where with this guy (or any guy) if you're this intense after a first meeting. Learn to relax a little. No I don't believe he only smokes when he is bored, obviously was just backtracking and coming up with something to make it sound like he didn't all the time. I don't believe that he was bored in spending the time with me your taking that out of context. But do believe the need/want to smoke was greater, which is what annoyed me. I don't call it an first date, but really a matter of opinion. I don't know if he considered it one. A man and woman spending 5 hours together ending with a kiss, most would say that's a date. I just didn't cause it was our first time meeting face to face off the internet. I haven't said anything to him and decided to wait and see if the second chance/date whatever goes any better first.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted June 25, 2010 Author Posted June 25, 2010 So since then we have gone out again and it was great, nothing like the first and no I didn't say anything. He has asked me out again to the movies and we have also planned a forth. He is coming over to my place cause the room mate is going on a trip, since he would be at my place I offered to cook and asked him what he likes to eat. I had to run and didn't finish the conversation and just now he asked me if I would like him to cook for me instead! Hell ya, I wouldn't pass up a guy cooking for me and didn't want to cook anyway! hee hee So goes to show, even though your not sure about someone after first impressions they may surprise you.
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